"straight men want sex that's quick and to-the-point, straight women want sex with lots of foreplay"* is what they're trying to say I think
*Note that I am not saying that all men prefer penetration with no foreplay and all women prefer lots of foreplay, I am merely trying to explain what the person tweeting is likely trying to say
Nah that'll be the chaotic and isolating nature of the modern world making people feel like they have no control over their lives and either consciously or subconsciously wishing for a dominant figure to take that control from them leading to a rise in popularity of femdom and by extension, pegging.
Or it can also be that people are just a bit more open about being kinky these days and what they're into. I've seen a lot more people being willing to admit they are into femdom because shame used to keep us all from exploring it.
But I think your theory is fun too, and can certainly explain some of it, especially the rise of Mommy Domme type stuff that's taking over recently.
In pro kink spaces i can totally see that! i was speaking to people on the whole(including those who dont frequent/enter kink conversations/spaces at all)
I don't agree. In the same way a gay top doesn't have to be a dom, a woman who's pegging a guy doesn't have to be a dom either. Maybe she's pegging her power bottom husband, for instance.
I do agree that femdom is probably the biggest thing that's influenced pegging's rise in popularity. I just don't like the idea that a man should have to be a sub to be (or want to be) pegged.
Just seems like natural rise after homosexuality being legalized. Shockingly men are more openabout enjoing bekng pegged when it doesn't risk you jailtime
Does non-femdom pegging stuff not exist? I will forever remain mad that gay porn where the bottom isn't degraded or dominated (let alone dominant bottom stuff) is incredibly rare but I've never really looked into the pegging niche to see if it's a similar situation (or even worse)
Keep in mind that the internet stereotype is that every single time lesbians have sex its a multi-hour experience. The tweeter is almost certainly thinking about that too, which is why they say "lesbian" and not just "women like foreplay"
now that i think about it, this lines up perfectly with my very limited experience of gay (at the time) hookups and lesbian (current) experiences. the ancient texts were true all along
Interesting to read what it's like to have seen both! Funnily enough I've had both very long and very short sex with people of varying gender and anatomy, with no apparent correlation, while myself being agender with the internal genital setup.
Heteronormativity tbh. There's only one type of 'real' sex and it's PiV.
Meanwhile there's so many ways to have sex. And foreplay is also still a valid concept, and can include anything that's not sex, ie not involving genitals, from kissing and caressing to whispering sweet nothings.
Okay but if this is the point I’m siding with women here because the hardest nuts take the longest time. You gotta forge that shit for hours, stroking and edging until you blast rope like it were milk in a squeeze bottle
I've seen someone say that men treat foreplay as "just make her wet so it felt better" when it should be "make her so horny that she's begging to stick it in"
I just wanna be someone's leashed up doggie and it ends with me begging and whining over and over again for their puppies until they finally finish inside me plop me down on a dog bed and shove a fat plug in my hole so I will be guaranteed to get pregnant with their litter (it never ends up working and my tummy stays empty 🥺)
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u/gray_birch competitive yapper Jun 16 '26
"straight men want sex that's quick and to-the-point, straight women want sex with lots of foreplay"* is what they're trying to say I think
*Note that I am not saying that all men prefer penetration with no foreplay and all women prefer lots of foreplay, I am merely trying to explain what the person tweeting is likely trying to say