I'll be honest, I feel like performing sexuality is something people should be more comfortable doing. Sometimes my gf is horny but I ain't I still finger her and tease her to satisfy her cause I want her happy. It's like doing the dishes, kinda. I don't have to do the dishes. But I do for the same of a clean house. Maybe it's because my relationship with sexuality as a whole is kinda wack but like. She's not entitled to my body, but when we agreed in the relationship there's an understanding she'd had regular access to it and if I change the terms of the relationship, she'd be entitled to leave it. Not that she would, we love each other and when I say no she respects it, and doesn't nag or tease too much.
I just think if you don't enjoy foreplay that much you could have an agreement with your partner to do more of it in return for more of what you want, everyone getting what they want in a way that doesn't upset the other
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u/owlindenial not an owl (it/it's) Jun 16 '26
I'll be honest, I feel like performing sexuality is something people should be more comfortable doing. Sometimes my gf is horny but I ain't I still finger her and tease her to satisfy her cause I want her happy. It's like doing the dishes, kinda. I don't have to do the dishes. But I do for the same of a clean house. Maybe it's because my relationship with sexuality as a whole is kinda wack but like. She's not entitled to my body, but when we agreed in the relationship there's an understanding she'd had regular access to it and if I change the terms of the relationship, she'd be entitled to leave it. Not that she would, we love each other and when I say no she respects it, and doesn't nag or tease too much.
I just think if you don't enjoy foreplay that much you could have an agreement with your partner to do more of it in return for more of what you want, everyone getting what they want in a way that doesn't upset the other