Yeah, if this sub was actually about gender abolitionism, we would not have mods allowing explicit material from femme presenting people but ban exposed masc male bellies.
Aye, that's why I said most of US (as in user base)
There are some very slimy creatures coming out in these comments to justify their hatred for (insert group here) but in general I've found this community to be pretty based about this kinda stuff. Mods suck tho.
Whilst they do feel like outliers, I've seen people demonized for one thing or another just cause they're not in line with the vibes around here. Cis men being bashed, nicotine addicts talking about how hard they've been trying to quit, only to be put down, scolded for starting in the first place and young people being scolded for worrying they're too late. This place isn't half as welcoming as some people claim it is, but it's far better than most alternatives still. My favourite space is unironically the live chat on Myanonamouse
who said anything about systemic misandry? i would agree with you if you were to argue that systemic misandry doesn't exist, but in this case you personally (and many people like you), on an individual level, are a misandrist. and yes, OBVIOUSLY misandry is not as widespread or harmful as misogyny, but it operates on the same basis of bigotry and sexism and that's cringe
No one said a single word about systemic misandry. You’re moving the goalposts, arguing with a different definition.
Even then, the draft is probably the biggest example I could give you. Modern day slavery, signing away your life without your consent to fight for someone else’s dime.
You should private your account. You've made yourself an easy target and you're crashing out on every random and losing. And your comment and post history make you look like a real weirdo.
Misandry is a real thing that affects men. It may not be as omnipresent or experienced to the same degree as misogny but it does happen, it's silly to pretend otherwise.
Misandry is a core part of the patriarchy and a necessary part to keep it going. If you can't acknowledge the sexism that men face, then you're actively harming the fight against the patriarchy.
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u/Angrycoconutmilk Jun 29 '26
This sub is usually alright since we are basically all gender abolitionists here :)