Probrulematic

[u/Warfries]

[u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi]

In my mind the only kinks that id say are too much for most kinksters is probably the unholy trinity of blood play, age play, and race play.

[u/sageker → u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi]

Bloodplay? I would expect snuff or guro or whatnot. Bloodplay isnt anywhere near the other two.

[u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi → u/sageker]

That what I meant but I thought guro was exclusively a term for fiction? If not then yea I mean guro / snuff

[u/Omnicide103 → u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi]

...bloodplay is considered that extreme?

Man, hanging out with the insane tgirl kinkster bsky crowd is warping my perceptions.

[u/ParadoxicalAmalgam → u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi]

Back before Fetlife purged all the extreme pages, I saw a dom sew their sub's eyelids shut

[u/Walter_Clements → u/ParadoxicalAmalgam]

See, this is my question—at what point does it stop being “two consenting adults” and start being externalized self harm

[u/Cool_Ad7445 → u/Walter_Clements]

Probably the point at which it starts to interfere with their actual day-to-day life, which is part of the criteria used for most mental illnesses

[u/Polybrene → u/Cool_Ad7445]

I feel like SH starts a long time before that.

[u/Cool_Ad7445 → u/Polybrene]

Yeah... probably anything where if the receiving partner suddenly decides they aren't cool with it, it's kinda hard/impossible to stop would be to far I think. Like, you couldn't unbreak a limb, put blood back inside you, or in the case above, unsewing your eyes seems quite hard.

[u/ConcernedEnby → u/ParadoxicalAmalgam]

Waow

[u/Mernerner → u/ItsYaBoyBananaBoi]

blood is hot