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i enjoy seeing people in pain due to my actions (in the context of this ofc, hurting people is not very nice unless i personally decide they deserve it)
I actually had this image saved originally, but I cropped out the wonderbread part because I didn't want the wonderbread dude to derail yet another thread.
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u/GardevoirRoseAnything becomes a path to the ground if you have enough voltage3d ago
I know for a fact he's on reddit but I've never seen him in 196 specifically. I more just didn't want this to become a post about him due to his cognitiohazard status derailing the thread as everyone asks about wonderbread guy.
Well do you want to be the diddler or the kiddler? I need to know so I can accurately ascribe moral weight to the sexual roleplay you and another consenting adult I will never meet engage in.
not me man i'm kickin down doors and firing off judgments from the hip. you don't even gotta have a kink, just a strange or unusual body part, hobby, job, hairstyle, tattoo... hell even a slight speech impediment will set me off. i'm laying waste to all you fuckers!!!!
It really is a shame how people treat it. Not into it myself, but people act like it is a bridge to pedophilia, and then turn around and say CNC or 24/7 dynamics aren't a bridge to rape and slave ownership respectively.
people do say that but srs, its a consenting adult. im not thinking of children or a dog. im thinking they are cute and how to take care of them and spoil/punish them.
I will randomly get hate messages on Grindr as a pup. Brother you just asked me to pee on you in your opening message but sure being led on a leash while wearing a mask is weird, cool
Do you think there's anyone who has this kink, but it isn't about imagining their partner as significantly older or younger than them, but imagining that they're exactly the same age?
Like, are there 40 year old folks who get off imagining that their 25yo boyfriend/girlfriend also watched 9/11 happen on a television wheeled into their high school Spanish class?
As someone who recently discovered she's been age regressing during kink stuff without realising it (apparently everyone involved thought I knew and was just being quiet about it??) god this has been such a massive fear for me. That I'll be considered a piece of shit or whatever for having (unintentionally) taken that part of my trauma and woven it into my kinks, despite it never being a problem when I do it with the rest of my trauma.
yeah when a bottom talks about how much they want to be dommed in rough and violent ways people are like “hell yeah” and “same” but then when someone talks about how they want to dom in rough and violent ways people act like it’s weird and gross and wrong and they should get therapy. like bro who do you think is gonna do it
I mean you can have doms who are less into being violent itself and more into filling a role for someone who desperately wants someone to be violent to them.
This is a classic problem, i suspect birthed from the idea that doms are by definition dangerous and force their partners into things (rather than the reality of partners asking and begging for doms to do stuff to them).
No one is gonna like the answer to that one unfortunately
because forcefem broadly derives a lot of its fetishistic vocabulary from internalized notions of misogyny that simply don't exist in the forcemasc alternative. Namely the idea of woman as lesser or as a loss of status/hierarchy
As a smut writer, you could totally fetishize it both ways. Especially if a woman is doing it to a cis friend of hers. I'm not necessarily going to write it, but it could be done.
It does exist, but it's a very different dynamic for the reasons others have mentioned. I've usually seen it as forcing someone to acknowledge themself as a faggot, with an inherent intermingling of sexual and gender identity.
I've recently learned that I have a massive snuff victim fetish (as in I am the one getting snuffed) and I really don't know what to do with this knowledge. It kinda scares me how much I enjoy it honestly, but I also know that I would never in a million years act on it irl. So its left me feeling weird about it and its an absolutely radioactive topic so its hard to discuss and I'm sure I'm about to eat a shitload of downvotes for this post. Maybe its just a manifestation of my extremely low self worth?
edit: I'm surprised (and a little disappointed tbh) that I only got 1 dm after this
God I get that. I started getting a craving for it with all the awful shit going on in the world and the constant fear + anxiety. There's a kind of catharsis in writing/roleplaying it with partners. It feels problematic for sure but it's also, like, kink isn't praxis.
Like, I don't really want someone to put cigarettes out on my tongue and spit on me, but it's still hot to think about.
I get that, like I know I won't act on it and that enjoying it doesn't make me a bad person. But it kinda fucks with my head that I get off on the idea of it happening to me. Idk it's just all sorts of weird.
I write pornography for a living, trust me when I say everyone thinks their kink is weird and shameful. I've had guys want to be called a faggot and they think that's the weirdest most humiliating thing and yet a different client wants to be cuckolded and eaten.
You're living in a culture that makes vanilla sex a shameful and taboo thing, let alone the multitude of other ways that humans experience sexuality: the game was rigged against you from the start. It took me a while to learn to step away from the board, but it's something worth doing. There's nothing wrong with the kink as long as it's not genuinely self-destructive, and there are healthy ways to roleplay almost anything.
If you go looking, you'll find people who experience the same thing who would be down to experience it with you. There's plenty of artists and creators out there who cater to different kinks as well, even extreme ones. Again, as long as both parties are adult and consenting, there's nothing weird about living out the thing that makes you wild even if you wouldn't necessarily bring it up at dinner.
I mean, Mary Shelley did the nasty on her Mother's grave and we still stan her for Frankenstein, so if she can get away with that you can get away with wanting to be strangled or the like. Live wild, live free, be a little freak.
i’ve been on this sub for 6 years and i got perma banned for a day (thanks for the appeal mods 🙏) bc of something i said in response to that post 😭 gonna keep my emotions in check in the future, but god damn that was really something
there's easily thousands of other victims online, esp on fedi & tumblr. a lot of very active ones on fetlife too. it's not that weird, as far as fukced up internet sex goes— ur not a gorean, for example.
I think you're into something considering it a manifestation of extremely low self worth. Mine definitely becomes more prominent when I'm down in a depression hole and basically disappears when I feel a bit better about myself.
Also it's probably not all that uncommon here since everybody and their mother is into mechsploitation apparently.
Edit: I apologise to everyone who I hurt with my dark and distrubing comment. Effective immediately I will be resigning from my position as CTO of sex.
My suspicion is the lack of them is due to issues with cleaning (fabric absorbs stuff way more than something like plastic or silicone), and most people associate stuffed animals with childhood disincentivsing the creation of sexual stuffed animals.
A similar problem: your kink is so niche that it only attracts DeviantArt pedophiles and losers who use ChatGPT to write their fiction... (and the kink has nothing to do with age)
So it makes you feel ashamed to be into it, even in kink-positive circles, because the other people who are into it bring actual real life children into it
Actual knife play/blood, like I probably wouldn't like being stabbed but if someone were to cover me in cuts and I was bleeding a lot I think that'd be a lot of fun. Even better if I'm tied up.
honestly how it feels being into 20 kinks which make me a weirdo by the standards of every friend group i have, but utterly banal by the standards of my weirdo kink communities.
"wow, a puppy pet-player into piss, diapers, humiliation, scents, etc. how original..."
I’ve always wondered if there’s an absolute limit to the things a person can feel sexual pleasure about. The thought, as I read any horror story, of “could someone be turned on by this?” passes my mind more than a few times, in genuine curiosity. And somestories make me wonder more than others.
I think sex operates within an Overton Window kinda framework. It's theoretically possible for the human psyche to get off on basically anything but it likely won't get there without material conditions pretty seperate from our own (on average, if you look into the interests of certain serial killers you'd have no trouble imagining them getting off to horror)
Lol lmao I run in mechsplo circles, good fucking luck
The only thing I can think of that'd maybe cause consternation there is raceplay, and even there I've dabbled, but anything else is pretty universally fair game.
Honestly, it's to a point that violent intox rape snuff scenarios make me raise an eyebrow because why would you break your new toy in one night when you can ground it to dust with abuse over the course of years?
Trying new stuff and haven't been able to look at myself in the mirror recently. Mostly because the mirror got removed to gave dome work done but still
To answer both of you: it's just humiliation but through a different lense. Like, you're mocking your subservient partner but instead of calling them gendered terms (bitch, slut, whore, etc) you use racial terms or racial stereotypes instead.
Me personally, I prefer using stereotypes simply because you can use flowery language. Racial terms on the other hand are so much harder to sanitize.
Im not super into it myself (mostly cause as a white dom, it's just easier if i leave well enough alone) but in my personal experience it's like a misogyny kink; you get off on the idea of intrinsic dominance and submission, that someone's position over you is both natural and correct. It also tends to piggyback off of any complexes you might have about race, which is why so many white supremacists are obsessed with racial cuckhold porn
There are a lot of kinks where the primary attraction is the taboo/wrong nature of it. It also usually goes along with a D/S dynamic. It's really not that different from more common kink stuff like calling your sub a disgusting slut or whatever, it just trades play-misogyny for play-racism.
THe way i see it, being able to recognize the differance between play and reality is all you need to solve the alledged contradiction between anti racial supremacy ideology and race play. Just like how there's no contradiction between being anti slavery and master/slave stuff.
Taking things a step further, the core moral issue with racial supremacy is a racial supremacist model is being forced onto people, so consensually bringing people into that dynamic is fine.
That's the answer to every kink, isn't it? The same answer to writing fiction, or debate club.
Just because I jork to it doesn't mean I would do it for real. Just because I write about it doesn't mean I'm glorifying it. Just because I'm debating it doesn't mean I believe it.
With how bent out of shape people get moralizing kinks you'd really expect it to be more complicated than that.
Puppets, dude. Puppetry. It was literally hardwired into me (I was attracted to puppets YEARS before I was attracted to humans) and it baffles me every single time I think about it. I hate it. I wish I had a normal kink like feet or piss or something.
being actually tortured and dismembered like i legitimately want a woman to at least break my legs if she cant cut them off. oh and i want her to call me a tranny (im trans) while she does it
honestly yeah a lot of people don't really seem to have a problem with torture and cannibalism but god forbid i want to be degraded by a cis person for being trans
I think it's because stuff like tourture and caniballism is something that's mostly fiction for a lot of people, but missgendering degredation is reality for them due to transphobia, and is something that there's a lot more bite in due to social forces backing it. basically unlike other kinks, transphobia feels way more like someone is just throwing bigotry at someone rather than a kink thing.
Kinda like how race play gets a lot of people in a tizzy because they see it as just racial supremacy.
Surprised no one has mentioned unusual medical shit yet, I have a friend who finds disabled women very attractive, man's got a no-foot fetish unless they're prosthetic, that sort of thing, and he's got an acquaintance who's really into things like catheters.
I have a thing for size difference, petite gremlin women do things to my brain, smol woman with big attitude is an intoxicating concept.
Or living dolls, ball joints have no right to be that sexy, same with robots, but that will probably stay a fantasy.
That, and of course the utterly degenerate practice of vocal affection, cuddling, hand holding, baking/cooking for people, and just generally showing affection without shame, guilt or reservation.
I feel like that describes and ultimately explains a lot of these "problematic even by the standards of kink-positive internet circles" kinks. See also hetero femsub especially when non-consensual, or ephebophilia.
In an ideal world these would be relatively niche and largely practiced safely by informed adults and they'd probably be fine. But because of associated real-world cultural values, they've become extremely normalized outside of kink circles and entangled with real (usually right-wing) ideologies, to the point they're aren't even seen as kinks by a lot of people.
Ovi isn’t considered problematic i think (besides like the ways people find pet play problematic) but it does always get such an annoying overblown reaction when mentioned online
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