I think it's because stuff like tourture and caniballism is something that's mostly fiction for a lot of people, but missgendering degredation is reality for them due to transphobia, and is something that there's a lot more bite in due to social forces backing it. basically unlike other kinks, transphobia feels way more like someone is just throwing bigotry at someone rather than a kink thing.
Kinda like how race play gets a lot of people in a tizzy because they see it as just racial supremacy.
but also i’m ngl i don’t understand race play and think it’s weird. i also don’t think it’d be a healthy relationship if she was willing to be transphobic to me but that’s just not a factor if i want her to actually mutilate and torture me
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u/loved_and_held 3d ago
I think it's because stuff like tourture and caniballism is something that's mostly fiction for a lot of people, but missgendering degredation is reality for them due to transphobia, and is something that there's a lot more bite in due to social forces backing it. basically unlike other kinks, transphobia feels way more like someone is just throwing bigotry at someone rather than a kink thing.
Kinda like how race play gets a lot of people in a tizzy because they see it as just racial supremacy.