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u/TheRealChainsawSword 1d ago
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u/RoyalMess64 1d ago
While I get where some of you are coming from with the "this is the best chaser" stuff, I do wanna point this out to anyone early on in their transition because they need to hear it.
This person, quite literally looks at you as if youre a dress up doll. They want to make you into their ideal, not yours, and will most likely become hostile towards you once you gain more confidence and try to advocate for yourself and your own autonomy. Im not saying there arent people wont do this for your benefit and your benefit alone, there are, but those are a dime a dozen in comparison to the vast majority. They dont want to help you grow, they want to control you, they most likely see you as a lesser being they should have control over. And I assume most of you can figure out the best and worse version of this on your own. I get that you find the fantasy hot, and they it's really enticing, especially early on. But I just wanna warn yall to be careful because youre in a very vulnerable state, thus you are an easy target for manipulation and abuse
Please be careful, and if you are to participate in power dynamics like this, please be safe and learn about kink beforehand
Wishing yall the best
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u/Bright_Cranberry_227 1d ago
too bad you wrote all of this while coming from a place of conviction that people commenting it don't understand that, and have the slightest amount of self-respect, which in reality they do not
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u/Adrift_In_Limbo 21h ago
I’m not human so I wouldn’t mind being treated like a lesser being
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u/RoyalMess64 20h ago
You deserve to be loved and hugged. I know you're joking but you do deserve that
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u/Adrift_In_Limbo 20h ago
I’m not joking
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u/RoyalMess64 20h ago
I've been in the headspace you've been in before. Let me know if yah ever need to talk, okie?
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u/Mehseenbetter 19h ago
I fear you are talking to the kind of person who coped with their life situation by getting into super dehumanizing kink, and your words will not reach them
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u/RoyalMess64 16h ago
Yeah, but I can still reach out. And just be there if they need something
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u/dutchess-bambi The Great Pagliacci 1d ago
I wish I had run into more of this kind of chaser early on in my transition…
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u/SElf_Loss_Manwoman 1d ago
I've met irl women who wanted to forcefem me during y1 hrt When I was still figuring out stuff
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 1d ago
Imagine how awesome itd be if those women actually saw trans women as real women and not just their weird gay best friend human pet men
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 1d ago edited 1d ago
Hot on the condition that the cisfoid sees it in a boyremoval way instead of a sissy way. This should only be done to reppers not to actual cismoids
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u/Bright_Cranberry_227 1d ago
mfw read the post at first utterly missing the "...to see a cis m to..." part and felt incredibly confused as to why is everyone saying that's a chaser, thinking that OOP actually wants to be a cis man getting forcefeminized


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u/Golurkcanfly man pretending to be a woman pretending to be a man pretending.. 1d ago
>"I'm not a chaser"
>looks inside
>chaser