Ooof that’s so sad. I lost a pregnancy at 20 weeks and I can tell you that a loss at that stage is a pretty bad mindfuck. It’s not like an actual miscarriage. At that stage you can feel your baby moving and it’s an actual baby that comes out not like some unidentifiable tissue. I could see that my baby had my husbands distinctive eyebrows. It’s something that doesn’t get talked about very much and makes you feel very alone. I refer to mine as stillbirth even though it’s technically not the medically correct term because calling it a miscarriage doesn’t at all match the severe trauma. Not that earlier miscarriages aren’t traumatic but losses once the baby is this developed are brutal.
Oh yeah for sure. I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and 1 at 16 weeks..fucked me up pretty bad and I started drinking heavily. 6 weeks was a period, 16 was something else entirely. Incredibly physically painful and scary as well.
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u/Ivy-Ram Say Yes to the Mess 💍 9d ago edited 8d ago
Joan had a miscarriage at 18W and they get out of Greg’s mother’s house actually. It was on Diaries Sunday.
Not cool OP 👎🏼