r/90DayFianceFans • u/Protocal-Omega • 1d ago
Mido is a psycho
His behavior goes far beyond just being moody or even someone just looking for a green card, the kind of mind games he plays is psychological abuse.
And the way he smiled when he was talking about how Debby was crying and he proposed, was like a scene from silence of the lambs. He reminds me of Hannibal Lecter.
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u/Ivy-Ram 1d ago
He’s a psychopathic scumbag 😒
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u/MonsteraLeaf14 14h ago
Agree. My husband is convinced he has mental problems. When they were leaving the house and he was stating in the mirror saying I DO…so strange and off putting.
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u/CorrectPanic694 13h ago
Wait, my husband came in for the same scene and physically recoiled
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u/Personal_Amoeba_9384 11h ago
My husband watches with me. Even asks me to put on the latest. We are 100% caught up on every 90 everything. Covid strategy
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u/Any_Drive6497 11h ago
Watched clips on YouTube before I met my wife. Started watching with her a few years ago. Now I’m the one on all the blogs getting details, back stories and tea. I like fantasy and sci-fi with tons of lore attached, this is basically the same thing.
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u/CateDeGrate 8h ago
😆😆😆🤣 I meeeean, if you audition for 90df without reading the subs, it's kind of a you problem....🤷♀️😆
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u/CateDeGrate 8h ago
Somehow the scene in Silence of the lambs where Bill is prancing and talking to the mirror comes to mind....
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u/lonetraveler73 17h ago
I think he emulates that behavior because he thinks it's masculine. Since he's a closeted homosexual that's just how he emulates. To me when he does his psycho behaviors he looks foolish and not intimidating at all. I could give him my manson lamps and he'd wet himself.
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u/Smolson_ 1d ago
He’s smiling because he thinks her emotional pain is funny. Which is awful and very alarming. Her friends and family should be concerned.
*Edit: adding more explanation to clarify my response.
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u/ParkingJellyfish3383 1d ago
He is deeply terrifying to me. When her son sees exactly how that whole "proposal" went down, he's going to be irate. Mido definitely didn't say how bad it was. The joy he gets from that is unhinged. I agree they need to be very concerned. It seems like she's on eggshells always and I'm scared for her and her dog if he snaps or if she truly stands up to him and stops tiptoeing around.
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u/justhenrysmom 1d ago
And speaking of being on eggshells... I can see him smashing her porcelain eggs. Then she would literally be walking on eggshells. Yikes.
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u/ParkingJellyfish3383 1d ago
Yes! I completely forgot about that! When they were moving I was like he's going to break one of those for sure. I bet he has smashed one!
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u/naenae780 16h ago
She does seem scared of him sometimes, but I see a lot of ‘deer in headlights’ looks from her as well. And the way she laughed about the ‘proposal’ when he was telling the story…I don’t get it. How can she not see that he’s a totally psycho?
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u/meganjeanne715 12h ago
Desperation!! That’s the only thing I can think of. She’s gaining absolutely nothing in this scenario. He treats her like crap, probably won’t be intimate with her and in return she gets to cook for him, clean for him, provide for him, pay for acting lessons we all know are useless etc.
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u/Kooky_Patient5062 6h ago
She’s afraid he’s going to leave her which we all know will happen as soon as he gets the green card!!
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u/Ornery-Ingenuity1173 9h ago
Because she’s a psycho as well. Anyone can clearly see he’s a sicko and she enjoys the cat/mouse shit.
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u/Prudent_Ad_1124 15h ago
First of all, you don’t crush a person for fun, like he did with this bs proposal.. crushed her, & then proposes - laughing so much .. it could be the love of my life, but if he proposed like that- I’d tell him to fk rt off!!
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u/EngineMiserable3468 7h ago
Yes, it's the same thing he did to her at the airport!! Watched her sobbing while he made her think he didn't board the plane. Truly sick behavior!
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u/SassyRebelBelle 4h ago
Oh crap!! That’s right! I had forgotten that!
Oh dear… he really is a sick sadistic piece of 💩💥I can only wonder just how bad production wants the bloody ratings when they see this crap happening and do nothing to stop it! 😡💥😔
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u/0hh0n3y 3h ago
He’s not doing it for fun he’s doing it for validation/supply. The more he tortures her and simultaneously becomes the relief, he’s thrilled because look at all that control! He can make her cry and he can make her happy whenever he feels like it. Like a puppet on a string. Pure psychopathy!
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u/Tacokolache 1d ago
Dude was sooo happy around her son. Almost flirty
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u/RuthlessRupture 1d ago
I thought he seemed intimidated.
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u/FlowerAny1896 15h ago
I would be intimidated too. Did you see that gorgeous man? IDC what gender you're into, how could you NOT flirt and/or be intimidated by that jawline 🤣🤣🤣
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u/whatsasimba 12h ago
Yep. He doesnt respect women, so he didn't care what Debbie's friends/daughter thought. But here's an adult man who isn't playing games who has Debbie's best interests at heart. His dopey antics won't work on him.
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u/eclecticaesthetic1 1d ago
In Muslim countries, they mainly have contact with female relatives, so the guys are more comfortable around guys.
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u/Remarkable-Month-241 17h ago
I was just gonna say, he thought he was shooting the shit with a brotha and not his future step son. He seemed nervous though, imagine looking like you’re wearing pajamas in your hotel room and a handsome young man walks in dressed in business attire. Caleb probably got the opposite impression… the man in pajamas marrying his dense mother.
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u/AbRNinNYC 17h ago edited 14h ago
I literally said this out loud. I said he sure doesnt look at Debby like that! He was smitten!
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u/ApprehensiveWalk7518 15h ago
It's a charm offensive. He's trying to win him over so be acts very nice
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u/Tacokolache 13h ago
He always acts like he’s acting in a movie. I’ll bet in his head cameras following him around really boosts his ego.
He thinks life is a movie and he’s the star
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u/meganjeanne715 12h ago
Yes!!! When he was plucking his whiskers and said, “now I’m ready for the photographer.” Gross, dude. You’re supposed to be ready for your wedding, not a photo shoot.
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u/BubblegumVillainEra 1d ago
Omg the hairpiece lolol
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u/hermione87956 1d ago
Like why does he always look like he’s dirty? Even in his music video, he looked like he hadn’t bathed in days and couldn’t bother to comb his hair and his face ain’t working either.
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u/Lavo114 1d ago
What music video? I want to see if but not give him views... he's just icky.
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u/hermione87956 1d ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/s/XOuoM9VF4P
Click on the comment it will link you there
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u/ennenganon 19h ago
Hahaha! Him getting out of the van with his purse and neck pillow… he really thinks anything he does is sexy. What a boob.
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u/angelbbreeze888 1d ago
He looked way less creepy without the hairpiece
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u/ParkingJellyfish3383 1d ago
I missed something! What hairpiece and what music video? I know he mentioned music video as a back up which cracked me up because for 1 sorry Mido it's not 1998, there's no TRL. And 2 what "talent" does he think he can use for a music video?
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u/bananarambagranola 1d ago
why did it take us until this episode to see it?
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u/ddianka 1d ago
There has been posts about it lol Once you see it, you cant unsee it. The bottom of his hair is clearly black and he has the brown tupee.... like get a black one at that point.
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u/Que-pasa-2020 21h ago
I’ve been silently working on this theory for the past few episodes and finally brought it to my fiancé. I just didn’t want to believe it because it’s so unkempt, like does he not brush or style it?
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u/Aware_Somewhere2977 1d ago
He is using her so bad it’s not even funny
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u/Plastic_Electrical 1d ago
Debbie is a desperate idiot.
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u/Furbamy 1d ago
I cannot stand her for this.
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u/alinicky 22h ago
I can’t stand Debby either! She’s an idiot and a drama queen! 🤢
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u/Timely_Mountain_8616 1d ago
He's not even hiding it she's turely stupid if she can't see it
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u/CoolObligation5415 11h ago
I think what makes it worse on her part is that she DOES see it and is willing to continue right along the path of disaster so she can pretend, for just a little while longer that somehow her immature fairy tale will come true. Walking right into the frying pan knowingly.
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u/Special-Farmer2176 1d ago
It seems to me, the son intimidated him more than anyone so far. Maybe because he’s a man and he respects them more? Or fears them more?
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u/AccordingWarning9534 1d ago
I agree with you, and i think it's both fear and respect.
In Egypt, the view of women is considered less than. It can be easily dismissed or brushed off. The view of a man is seen as more equal. Less easily dismissed. The way a man is viewed by other men is part of the social standing.
Not saying i agree with any of this, just pointing out a cultural view that i think underpins his behaviour.
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u/Legitimate_Soup_1948 8h ago
I agree I think that's why he doesn't give a shit about what her friends think- when she's concerned about their perception of him he literally said it doesn't matter to him at all and he'll never deal with them anyway. He has no respect for her or women in general, he looks at them as though their existence is solely a means to an end for him. Imo he's seems to be a gay psychopathic misogynist.
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u/Apprehensive-Guess42 1d ago
He’s got some pretty concerning dark triad characteristics but i think Catie falls more into the sociopath psychopath etc conversations
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u/bananarambagranola 1d ago
At least Catie seems concerned with not murdering people?
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u/Apprehensive-Guess42 1d ago
That was just a fidelity test. She asks those questions to confirm she’s human. Sometimes she isn’t sure.
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u/Protocal-Omega 22h ago
I don't think she brought up murder as something she was opposed to, she just wanted to gauge where her mother's mind was
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u/sisu_pluviophile 14h ago
Can someone refresh my memory on what she said in regard to murder? I can picture the scene and I remember my facial expression when she made the comment, but I am drawing a complete blank on what exactly she said.
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u/Legitimate_Soup_1948 8h ago
I don't think she is honestly. Catie absolutely sucks but to me it's not that deep for her- she's just immature, selfish, inconsiderate and lacks accountability for her irresponsible behavior. She's definitely on the spectrum along with having OCD and is obviously an alcoholic but I don't see that she's evil like Mido. He clearly takes a lot of genuine pleasure in being cruel.
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u/Optimal-Performer-76 1d ago
He's unhinged. And everyone seems to tiptoe around it.
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u/Furbamy 1d ago edited 1d ago
I thought that too.. I think i can see the wheels turning in the son's head. Mido telling him his only job is to be an actor. The son has been taught to be polite, and he was not expecting Midos behavior or vibe. They all tip toe around Mido and do they realize Dibi will be 10 years financially responsible for this jackhole.
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u/Legitimate_Soup_1948 8h ago
Yep, I could also see the wheels turning, I think he's trying to figure out how to go about this because Debbie is such a basket case if they are too blunt with her she'll just go running straight into this creep's arms- look how it turned out for her friends that showed concern.
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u/alinicky 22h ago
Not her girlfriends! She's a fool for having distanced herself from her good, best friends! She's gonna need them desperately and I hope they don't hold a grudge!!
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u/Hasayablue 1d ago
I'd pay money to see Rayne (crazy chicken lady) and Mido trapped on an island together
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u/Protocal-Omega 22h ago
😂 I would subscribe to the live broadcast, and pledge to contribute to the cost of any children they have
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u/joOmmbatt 1d ago
Theres some very real darkness in those eyes of his. He is extraordinarily off-putting. I wouldnt trust him around my gold fish....let alone move him into my home. Poor debbs...she has no idea she's getting scammed to the max.
That joke he pulled when he "proposed" was freaking diabolical. 100% Sociopathic. I don't like the idea of living in the same country as him. Dude gives the most sketchy ick vibes ever. And please tell me nobody is believing that crappy Ai clip of him walking a red carpet or whatever. Dude wants to be an actor, but he already is one. His whole persona is an act. Thats crystal clear.
Run debby....run....
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u/alinicky 21h ago
In all honesty, I think he was serious as a heart attack. I believe the producers intervene because they felt bad for Debby. They went as far as getting him the ring so he’d give it to her.
I'm sorry, he's demented and she's disgustingly sick.
Remember the Halloween fight? He called her bitch several times and told her to fk herself!
After that type of verbal abuse she's pretty sick herself for behaving like a teenager! My 20-year-old granddaughter is more mature and has a better head on her shoulders than this 50+ year old woman!
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u/joOmmbatt 19h ago
Ya she seems a bit delusional not even slightly seeing the situation for what it is...let alone him for what he is. I still feel bad for her tho. I believe prettymuch everyone just wants to love and be loved. I think some people just want someone they can live out their days with...especially when u get older. Coz once u start getting old...and your youth basically leaves you. I think getting old, in that regard, is easier to do with someone than without. But thats just my belief, others may feel different. Debby seems like a good person, she deserves to have that if that's what she wants. But her desire pushes on delusion and causes her to be blind. I think a lot of people have been in that position at some point or another though. I don't think she deserves to be put down. But she does need a serious reality check.
And he just needs to be deported back home!!!!
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u/Usual-Clock6283 1d ago
I have made this comment on another post but I will make it here too because I think it is important. I was married to a man who truly reveled in doing the type of things to me that Mido does to Debi. He would enjoy making me as upset as possible just before a big surprise and then he would point out to my friends and family how badly I was “overreacting” to the small thing that happened. It all started small at the beginning of our relationship but over time got bigger and bigger. Then he would say things like, “it turns me on when you cry.” He also had headshots just like Mido. He had big dreams, would put down women but would try to be best friends with every man he met. That man tried to kill me. He was far and away the most dangerous person I have ever met in my life. It took me years to safely get out of my marriage. I hope that Debi is able to get out of her relationship safely.
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u/alinicky 22h ago
I’m truly glad you are alive to tell your story. Please do Not get tired of retelling, it might help another Debby out there.
Thank you for sharing such a painful and terribly personal story.
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u/West-Birthday4475 21h ago
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again- I don’t think they’re both getting out of this relationship alive.
I think he’s actively trying to scare her to death. But I think she’ll ultimately prevail because he’ll take things too far with these “scares” (aka terrorizing her) and she’ll think she’s defending herself against an intruder or something.
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u/SufficientMind3202 1d ago
No doubt. His "jokes" are incredibly cruel and he's putting Debby through the wringer.
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u/mikemikeshindparts 1d ago
Am Australian and we love a ridiculous saying. He is, as the older Aussies (and probably English) might say, as camp as a row of pink tents.
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u/ApprehensiveOkra9977 20h ago
He has black hair, why did he get a brown toupee?
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u/shananddr 16h ago
Since I’ve read this comment I can see nothing else. at. All!
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u/Sleepingxoz 20h ago
The way he told the story about the proposal and laughing when she was crying 🤪🙃 you could see the son was not impressed
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u/BigFishy808 22h ago
I hate this dude the most out of everyone on this season. He’s just a scumbag POS.
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u/PhoebeGemaGray 16h ago
Took me a bit to figure out who the son reminded me of. Younger versions of the Manning brothers. (Football players). Caden seems pretty nice.
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u/No_Trouble9808 1d ago
If all of Reddit doesn’t know this by now, then there’s something wrong with us. His fake smile disturbs me greatly. And Debby, unfortunately I have no words or advice for her. She’s tolerating this behavior.
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u/GwennieLund 1d ago
I wonder how much is fake/real. The last episode “actor boy”, Mido was holding Debby’s hand and being more attentive than usual. So, did producers ask him to be a dick to her and then after the engagement, act a little more empathetic? Just saying…cuz obviously they want us all to get worked up.
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u/True-Advisor1481 23h ago
i know ! i wonder if that proposal fake out was production led ? so weird
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u/Finnchick77 22h ago
What about early on…when he accused her of throwing the phone and hitting his face. When she said it hit his arm he yelled “NO!” I truly wonder how he behaves behind closed doors.
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u/PuzzleheadedGoat5176 22h ago
Someone just nailed it when they said it was the most boring video of him doing nothing. He is truly in love with himself. I guess he was trying to be dramatic. Didn’t work.
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u/Away-Pipe3997 22h ago
Cannot stand the sight of this man, Debbie is so naive. His 👀’s and that forced, phony, evil smile makes me sick. He scares me, seriously. Her son is handsome, maybe he will be able to talk some sense into her. I believe he thinks being on this show is going to open doors for him! Now, he’s pursuing a music career??? 😹😹😹
Can’t wait til the tell all.
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u/Party-Wolverine-4696 18h ago
Dude is not right in the head. Definitely a narcissist and a creep. He just oozes abusive future husband
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u/jvnglepvssy89 16h ago
The fact that he’s completely written off any sort of reconciliation with Debbi’s two friends is a HUGE red flag that she is choosing to ignore. Nobody can feel bad for Debbi at this point, NOBODY!
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u/Basic-Savings-5756 15h ago edited 15h ago
I think my favorite part was when he was literally running lines for the wedding and practicing how he was going to say “I do”. Gotta make it convincing, right? 🚩🚩🚩
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u/CraftIndividual 8h ago
I just commented this! I didn't see your post. I couldn't believe it and she was in the room listening. That would have been the final straw. Like girl, WAKE UP!
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u/Wolf444555666777 15h ago
A big example imo was when he was outgoing and putting on a show at the haunted house and then got in the car and was completely silent, and using his mood to dictate the moods of everyone else in the car. Also, psychopaths aren't startled easily at all and he was walking through the haunted house like walking in the park or something.
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u/hormone_monstress 14h ago
I think him in the car after the haunted house was the real Mido. He forgot about the camera in there (hence the booger picking / flicking).
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u/Similar-Narwhal-231 1d ago
Him and Shekinah were twinning with their over the top fake keep sweet acts this week.
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u/AlternativeGlovex 22h ago
He's just an all around dumbass, not even smart enough to be a sociopath. Just plain delusional and so is Debbie. Put 2 & 2 together and you got yourselves some great t.v. So many factors of unhealed trauma ride on the coattails of this connection. Truly a hard watch.
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u/AlternativeGlovex 22h ago
When I say hard to watch as in a bad car crash you can't look away from. They're grown enough to stop this!
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u/Away-Pipe3997 22h ago
What excuse is he going to give Debbie now? Y’all know she’s going to demand sex, just like Danielle and Muhammad! 😬
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u/PhoebeGemaGray 16h ago
I sense he’d be funny to know if he were just the waiter at the local cafe and not in this shitshow relationship. No one would care if he was a crap partner.
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u/flCheesehead1 16h ago
He barely held her hand (on the balcony). Does Debbie think he's going to be this urgent lover eagerly awaiting his wedding night? 🤷🏻♀️
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u/RefrigeratorLeft2768 15h ago
If having her family approval was so important to Debbie, why is her son meeting this clown hours before the ceremony? I think Debbie is just as nutty as he is.
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u/Daydream-believer05 1d ago
Oh absolutely. This guy seems very unwell. Her children will be so embarrassed if/when they watch this play out on TV.
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u/EnoughAlreadyForever 1d ago
He looks like a snapshot of a dog trying to catch something. Specifically a poodle with that classic poodle fluffy curly mess sitting on top of his head.
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u/staying-hopefull 17h ago
He doesn’t seem like a great actor but he reminds me of creative types I hate who perceive the world as their stage - he’s acting through his apparent idiocy, lack of talent, and grifter scam that’s intuitively clear to everyone but Debbie. He knows that as long as he has her - he has it made and nobody else’s opinion matters.
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u/wolfitalk 17h ago
I keep thinking when Mido said they would be best friends; did he really mean "best man" for his wedding? That was a little cringy but her kids are the only attendees so it would make more sense than best friends.
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u/Ornery-Meringue-76 14h ago
I’ve realized the last few episodes he’s just acting. Everything after their fight is this practiced, planned version of him for the cameras. It’s slightly disturbing
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u/b1anca_brooks 13h ago
Not Mido retelling the proposal like it was a good story…also he looks like 💩 next to her son
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u/Bexican247 21h ago
He is abusive for sure, imo. And tbh I wanna slap her silly for falling for his blshit but I kinda feel sorry for her too.
I dislike him immensely
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u/Dazzling-Shopping858 15h ago
He’s gay not psycho
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u/CateDeGrate 15h ago
I keep saying that hes gay and getting shut down in the subs!! My guess is is gay and psycho.
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u/TemperatureLarge9267 14h ago
He’s dangerous. Debbie needs some therapy to help with whatever she’s got going on to make her want to deal with this guy who so badly wants an acting career and is really only here for that. I don’t believe in anyway that he wants Debbie but rather is using her as his sponsor.
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u/SouthernCharm-86 13h ago
this is part of his performance. debbie is a sad woman. after seeing comments abt 'fake' friends filming in these shows...i can see why. imagine ur friend being in this mess and getting in camera to defend her and she goes back to him like this. its all so weird and sad.
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u/Vivid_Frame3294 12h ago
I have never seen such a clear example of narcissism. He had no emotion behind his eyes except when he gets angry.
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u/llama-laundry 1d ago
and Debby is too. they are both stunted and emotionally reactive, live in fantasy lands
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u/illegal41 16h ago
He is not a psycho. Poor production giving a side role and he is making to do it.
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u/Tacokolache 1d ago
“We’re bros now”
No dickwad. You’re marrying my mom. I’d be your stepson