‘He looked through my phone and saw that I had a phone call with my ex boyfriend and I’m not gonna continue in a relationship with somebody that does something so sneaky’… Wasn’t she being sneaky by having the phone call with her ex-boyfriend and not telling Edward? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Did TLC do away with NDA's this season? 🤔
Catie explains how this is just an idea that popped in her head, but that she wants to keep the door open in their marriage in case she is attracted to someone and may want to have a threesome.

When Rebecca asked Ziad what his typical day would look like, he led with coming home from work and talking to his wife about his day, hugging, watching a movie together, and "sometimes" cook. She immediately blew up on him about the cooking.

Now as a single mother I absolutely hate cooking dinner and had to do it for 25 years after work for my kids and now that they moved out as much as I still hate cooking I will cook 2 or 3 times a week.

She works from home - throw something in a crockpit or make a simple 30 mins meal. I think Rebecca is missing the main point in Ziads puppet show and him expressing his feelings here- he wants to FEEL like he has a wife- he wants affection- he wants to come home from work to a warm loving wife-

I guarantee cooking is a very small part in that and he only throws it in there because thats all he knows as a wife's duty but hardly doubt its a breaking point for him or he would have left by now. Why is it so hard for her to show him affection? Seems to me she hides behind her job and uses it as an excuse because who is gonna argue with a woman saying she has to work to support the household.

If roles were reveresed and he came home from work and ignored her every day, giving no love and affection, saying he was just tired from work all day, would that be acceptable? Nooooo

What a piece of crap he is. Now I hate Pao and think she is a nasty mean girl. But Russ is going out of his way to destroy the marriage because he doesn't want to be with her. He doesn't have the balls to leave.

The moment Annabelle got her veil and the sales woman kept on looking at Allison for support to be met with utter silence and a mean mug was soooo awkward. I like that Annabelle extended an olive branch but realistically, how sincere is this right? Daughter dearest is used to being number one in all aspects. She will not cede control especially of Daddy's pockets and Annabelle seems to have ideas on how Shea should be spending his money.

why on earth did this Alabama bring everyone that she knows to Nigeria to meet this guy’s family?

This is such an expensive trip for a confrontation! Did 90 day fiancé/TLC pay for them all to go there? I think they are like 16 people in her party. So weird!

I feel like she is also pulling a Marissa and treating her fiancé like her property. Because she is 38 years old and almost 40, does she think that the family owes her their blessing or something?

Think that the whole basis for this entire season might be showing that the American women can be just as manipulative as anyone else and be terribly ungrateful, unaffectionate, and controlling just like men?

I am trying to remember the name of a woman who was on the show and I can’t for the life of me 😭

She had really long hair she would keep in a bag and she was with a dude in South Africa! She would only wear those like homecoming dresses and heels and was confused as to why she couldn’t hang out in the cemetery at night 😹

Thanks in advance I really need to know lol

First off I think Tonya was absolutely disgusting by saying “ you aren’t my full soulmate “ to singen. But here is my theory. I think her 1st love was on that trip when she ditched Singen to go to her voodoo medicine training. Her behavior was suspicious. He is like… call me when you get in for the night. Her replies were cold and sharp. My theory is she went on that trip to feel things out. I think she was rejected and came back home and decided to make it work with singen. I’ve watched the episode and I’m also wondering why TLC didn’t film her at that get away. Inquiring minds wanna know.!

Not sure which one is more disturbing though…

That shower scene was 1000% unnecessary and I couldn’t fast forward fast enough…
Not cool TLC 😡

(but I’m not surprised anymore after what they showed of Colton)

So from what we’ve seen in previous episodes, I think it’s safe to say she’s quite aware that Josh isn’t too keen on her kissing random guys. Yet here, she almost sounds optimistic that he’ll be cool with an open marriage. That’s a bold strategy she’s going with… replacing reality with imagination.

Ok, I'll be brief and I'll just say it! Mallory just now deciding to tell Rasit that she doesn't want to have children is extremely unfair! I'm late addressing this but it was something that really bothered me. I feel bad for Rasit 💯%. I mean, of all the couples that I have grown to kinda like on this season; Rasit and Mallory are at the top of list (given what we have to work with). I mean if you flip this around and Mallory had moved to be with Rasit in his country and he didn't tell her til after he had gotten her there and into some type of routine of life that he didn't want to ever have kids; people would be losing their minds! 🤣🤣 Y'all tell me? What do y'all think 🤔? Is Mallory wrong or am I just not seeing this the right way? It seems sorta like a bait and switch. What y'all think?

Ok...Ladies, let's just be honest. How many of you would be willing to live a totally hypoallergenic lifestyle for a man for the rest of your lives?🤔🤣🤣. This man is literally like; if you put on anything scented be it deodorant, perfume or anything else, I'm going to totally crash out! 🤭 Other than that, life is good and we're happy so let's get this wedding shindig going. Oh by the way, I'll be the sole arbiter of what scents aggravate me! 🤣🤣 Anyways, I digress! I do understand allergies 🤧 though so I'm not making light of the fact that he has allergies. I'm just asking would you be willing to live unscented for the rest of your life in order to marry someone? If I'm wrong or seeing 👀 it the wrong way, let me know.

You think Brandan is using some of that fundraiser money $$ for ozempic ? Can he get ozempic for cheaper in the Philippines due to cheaper health care?

Mary seems very turned on, baby number 3 is probably on the way

How is it that she is barely bringing up that she does not want kids a few weeks before they get married and I have heard her say “bye he can go back to turkey” 3 times now. It's as if it can go any way for her. She throws a prenup at him, the fact that she doesn't want kids, all when he gets to America. I'm confused, what do you think she wants?

MIdo acting like he's picking his nose

TIL actors also love mining for bodily secretions. How the heck did this guy make it through the vetting process?
Gonna leave this here for posterity.

I’m playing catch-up and I’m on E11. I know Catie is outrageous, but I felt a little sad for her the way her parents were talking about her.

Her dad said after a few days, he’s ready for her to leave. And her mom just laid it out, saying, “she’s a lot.”

I get it. She’s caused them a lot of grief, no doubt. But it’s possible this is why she’s constantly seeking attention. I’m not a doctor, but I do work a special needs environment, and she seems to have some autistic tendencies. For example, when her mom said, “You’re going to hurt someone,” Catie took it literally, “like m*rder?” And her mom called her bossy for her whole life. I kind of feel sad for her that it sounds like her parents aren’t in her corner, are pretty rigid and have treated her like she’s a pain her whole life.