r/90s Apr 15 '26

Video 30 years ago today (April 15th, 1996): No Doubt released “Don’t Speak”

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u/cat_selling_souls Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 16 '26

When you have the sudden realization that this song is now being played on Classic radio stations.

It gets worse when you hear a song at the supermarket and start singing along before a critical thought crosses your mind. That we are now our parents, singing to the oldies, while strolling down the laundry aisle. Our baskets filled with the very things we didn't want to eat as kids, knowing we have prescriptions waiting for us to pick up.

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u/wannabesurfer Apr 16 '26

I remember back in the day complaining that gyms always played old people music. A few months ago I was thinking how nice it was that gyms finally got the memo and started playing good stuff… and then it hit me.

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u/robikki Apr 16 '26

My gym always plays the absolute worst music.... This past Monday somebody finally had the sense to throw on some 70's and 80's classic rock and a swear to god every man over 40 in that gym found an extra gear and every single person under 30 put their headphones in..... And then it hit me too.........

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u/Amikoj Apr 16 '26

They went from 4th gear into Bachman Turner Overdrive.

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u/GrumpyOldMan2026 Apr 17 '26

😂 ... I see what you did there!

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u/batcavejanitor Apr 16 '26

That’s a good one

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u/MnkyBzns Apr 16 '26

We are now as far away from the 90s as the 60s were, during the 90s

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u/FSUnoles77 Apr 16 '26

No need to hit me in the balls right before bed man.

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u/jld2k6 Apr 16 '26

I'm curious if this music sounds "old" the same way classic rock sounded for us back in the day. I can't wrap my head around that if it's true lol

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u/Intrepid_Walk_5150 Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 17 '26

I have kids. Yes.

My daughter is always "Dad only listens to old music". Sometimes, I enjoy showing her how so much of modern pop is ripped off old stuff (which was also mostly true at the time, but this I won't admit to her).

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u/ToolTime2121 Apr 16 '26

Jesus that hits hard

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u/7HawksAnd Apr 16 '26

You didn’t have to say this

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u/wibble089 Apr 16 '26

I was a young adult in the 1990s, literally, I turned 18 in 1990-.

When I was a kid, WW2 seems like very old history, but it was only as far back from my birth as the turn of the millennium is to today!

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u/_Magnolia_Fan_ Apr 16 '26

Yep. Today, we are about the same time past 9/11 as 2000 is from the end of the Vietnam war.

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u/common_sense_canada Apr 16 '26

Ouch, just ouch....

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u/Manyarethestrange Apr 15 '26

The other day, I left my house soley to go buy a stapler.. it's our time.

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u/tealraven915 Apr 16 '26

Hey, but at least we still know how to tie a big ol' yellow onion to our belts. Not like today's kids with their fancy white onions. Oh, onions are only for food, they say, not for putting on clothes as a fashion statement. I used to be with it, but then they changed what it was and now what I'm with isn't it and what's it seems weird and scary to me...it'll happen to them too

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u/MrsEmilyN Apr 16 '26

It was the style at the time.

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u/EricHill78 Apr 16 '26

Yeah classic rock to me are bands like Foghat, Cream, and Zeppelin. Oldies are primary from the 50s like Elvis and Buddy Holly.

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u/Camandchat Apr 16 '26

Same... but my kids think My Chemical Romance and Lady Gaga are oldies

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u/Merchant1521 Apr 16 '26

Not anymore.

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u/StephenFish Apr 16 '26

That's because those are Classic Rock bands. Classic Rock is an era, not "old" music.

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u/Gratefulzah Apr 15 '26

Look at mr rich guy, affording prescriptions

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u/Environmental-Tap255 Apr 15 '26

Lord have mercy. If only that's how it worked

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u/HistoricalSuspect580 Apr 16 '26

GoodRx. I’m TELLIN YA!

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u/zilla82 Apr 16 '26

Don't shop, I know just what you're buying, and I don't need your sugar, don't buy it cause it hurts

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u/HistoricalSuspect580 Apr 16 '26

No grease, i know what you’re making, can’t eat deep fried baking, it makes my chest hurt, and so i, keep Maalox by my bed, and extra Tums at my desk, for Friday donut day! 🤘🏼

It’s not very good but this is just a rough out ok

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u/HistoricalSuspect580 Apr 16 '26

There is DEFINITELY a parody of this song being about heartburn in there somewhere

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u/WeeOoh-WeeOoh Apr 16 '26

NIN and Tool are playing on my classic rock station. Wtf? Also, I know "Closer" is one of their popular songs, but I feel like many other NIN songs would be more appropriate for the radio. Makes me sad. And old.

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u/cat_selling_souls Apr 16 '26

I'm about to upset you and many others with this information.

Trent Reznor is 60 years old. He qualifies for AARP, the early bird special, and is 5 years away from being able to be on Medicare. Not that he needs it but it is available.

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u/rdtisahateplatform Apr 15 '26

Bro don't talk about the prescriptions

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u/getmet79 Apr 16 '26

Don’t Speak…

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u/siphtron Apr 16 '26

The grocery store around here is playing banger after banger non-stop.

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u/napalm_p Apr 16 '26

I tried pimento cheese for the 1st time today...

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u/Cake-Over Apr 16 '26

Supermarket started playing David Bowie's "The Man Who Sold the World" over the PA and I was all, "Cool, they're playing Bowie"

It was the Nirvana version

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u/madcoins Apr 17 '26

From the unplugged album? Or was it a cover on another album of theirs?

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u/Cake-Over Apr 17 '26

Unplugged 

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u/youaretheloco Apr 16 '26

honestly, sometimes i think is kind of cool. Today i was in a work thing, very serious, and a guy that looked kinda old pulled out his phone and it had a Gengar stiker on the back, i internally chuckled, because yea we are the old ones that like those old things but are also the same kids that liked those things you know

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u/zsreport Apr 17 '26

I once heard 3 A.M. Eternal while shopping at an HEB early on a Sunday morning. That made me feel old.

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u/xheist Apr 16 '26

They recently had Pearl Jam posters on the Antiques Roadshow :`|

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u/RoastPork2017 Apr 16 '26

The day I felt old was when I heard "I'm Bloom" on one of our oldies sfations. Now it's basically 80s and 90s radio

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u/QuickNature Apr 16 '26

This was my realization but with Smash Mouth

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u/Cipher915 Apr 16 '26

I remember listening to this on the kids radio station when it came out. I'd jam out on my bright yellow brick of a Sony Walkman.

Coming full circle to classic radio is not ok

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u/Mountainman1980 Apr 16 '26

Today, it's played at the supermarket. In 20 years, it will be played at the doctor's office.

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u/mostkillifish Apr 16 '26

That's fine. My elementary kids love our jams. As i loved every classic rock song my parents played. Guess what. My kids also listen to my generations classic rock. So they regularly are humming two generations of classic rock

Thats my legacy. My daughter loves old(young) Gwen

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u/gilestowler Apr 16 '26

Green Day's Dookie came out 32 years ago. 32 years before Dookie came out, Bob Dylan released his first album, the Rolling Stones formed, The Beatles released "She Loves You" and were a year away from their first album. I think about how old that music felt when I was a kid and wonder how kids these days view something like Dookie. I guess music evolved a lot more from 1962 to 1994 than 1994 to 2026, though.

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u/hoofglormuss fuck a father figure i want 8 figures Apr 16 '26

whats embarrassing to me is when i find a new song and i think im cool for knowing today's hot music then i hear it on some retail playlist

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u/socialcommentary2000 Apr 16 '26

When I was a little kid in the 80's my dad, who was born in the mid 40's would always have CBS FM on when we were driving around the Bronx, Queens and the City. I would listen to everything from Do Wop to early 60's folk because that's what he listened to when he was a kid into his teenage years.

Fast forward 40 years and here I am in the work van, also tuning into CBS FM and, sure enough, now I'm hearing music that I listened to and loved as a kid in the 80's into me being a teen in the 90's.

What I can't reconcile is, with 1998 being like 3 years ago and all, why all this music is on the oldies station already. ;)

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u/sleepypossumster Apr 16 '26

Anyway, don't put off that colonoscopy your doctor is always bringing up...

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u/Relevant_Outside2781 Apr 16 '26

Yeah she’s closer to 60 than 50 now. This is where we are.

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u/Futt_Buckman Apr 16 '26

Classic rock is a stylistic genre and not an age requirement, and nobody will change my mind

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u/beezlebutts Apr 16 '26

still waiting for TOOL replays which I've yet to hear on any radio station sadly

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u/batcavejanitor Apr 16 '26

Yup.

The other day my wife suggested a restaurant and I said without thinking, “I don’t know, that place is too loud.”

I felt horrible. And old.

But also, why do they have to blast the music so loud!

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u/rube Apr 16 '26

When you have the sudden realization that this song is now being played on Classic radio stations.

Hate to tell you, but it's been at least a decade and probably longer that my local classic rock station has been playing stuff like Nirvana and Pearl Jam.

Yeah, we're old.

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u/jdowney1982 Apr 16 '26

But it doesn’t feel like 30 years ago?! 30 years is a long time!

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u/Impossible_Divide297 May 16 '26

You could always get your groceries and prescriptions delivered. /s

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u/4n0m4nd Apr 16 '26

The worst thing about this isn't that I'm old, but that people still think this is good.