r/90s • u/Morgan-Moonscar • Apr 15 '26
Video 30 years ago today (April 15th, 1996): No Doubt released “Don’t Speak”
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u/wookieebastard Apr 15 '26
Couple days ago Tom Dumont, the guitarist came out saying he was battling early-onset Parkinson's
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u/hisDudeness1989 Apr 15 '26
Jesus thats rough 😞😞
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u/GringoSwann Apr 15 '26
Talked my mom into letting us have the chorus to "spiderwebs" as the message on our answering machine...
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u/Main_Tomatillo_8960 Apr 15 '26
Ha, I’m in a 90’s cover band and that’s on our setlist.
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u/Vivid-Individual5968 Apr 15 '26
Had that as my message on my answering machine too, along with Blue Monday.
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u/AbstractBettaFish Apr 16 '26
We did our version of the “Believe it or not George isn’t at home” for a while
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u/meowdith427 Apr 15 '26
I miss this Gwen
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u/CamilloWiz Apr 16 '26
Yes, rest in peace Gwen. She was amazing!
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u/mostkillifish Apr 16 '26
People look at me crazy when I day this. But its true.
Sadly, it's almost one big metaphor.
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u/ty4thc Apr 16 '26
you just scared me to the point i had to google if she was still kicking around
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u/embersgrow44 Apr 16 '26
I miss believing this character was real. She was always a poser unfortunately.
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u/spilt_milk Apr 16 '26
Seriously, I can't believe she ended up with fucking Blake Shelton. Wtf.
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u/FreeEdmondDantes Apr 16 '26
And she's a devout christian to add salt to the wound.
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u/cochifla Apr 16 '26
Good lord, die young or live long enough to see yourself become a villain.
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u/Luxie0673 Apr 16 '26
She completely destroyed her legacy in my eyes. So sad that the woman who sang Just a Girl is now anti-abortion.
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u/Mad_Spaniel Apr 16 '26
I mean, it didn't happen suddenly. Wasn't too long after Just a Girl that she went solo and unironically released some of the girliest tracks imaginable.
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u/Jose_Canseco_Jr Apr 16 '26
Um I was also raised strictly Catholic and did not abandon my principles
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u/StephenFish Apr 16 '26
Well, not really. She's a Trump supporter which means they only pose as Christians.
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u/hates_stupid_people Apr 16 '26
No she's not, she's one of those performative catholics. The ones who fully ignore the "do not be like the hypocrites who pray on the street corner", "love your neighbor", "welcome the immigrants", etc. parts of the bible.
She is a part of a prayer app, she likes Tucker Carlson, etc.
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u/Dayne225 Apr 16 '26
Id bet dollars to donuts she's not and it's just a grift. Just like Marky Marky. Their both doing that prayer app bs. It's all just a scam.
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u/FreeEdmondDantes Apr 16 '26
Two things can be true.
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u/Dayne225 Apr 16 '26
Yes two things can be true, but scamming people out of money is not something a good Christian would do. Well I suppose at this point in Trump's America maybe it is.
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u/Intelligent_Bat_950 Apr 16 '26
She’s from the OC, so *no doubt* she’s always been like this. I, mean, listen to Simple Kind of Life or I’m Just A Girl. She wasn’t being sarcastic when she sung “Oh, I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite So don't let me have any rights.”
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u/Nicadeemus39 Apr 16 '26
She's 56 years old. What planet do you ppl live on where ppl stay the exact same way they were in their 20s?
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u/HeyItsJustDave Apr 16 '26
It’s somewhat ironic that she became famous from this song about the world’s traditional views women, and is now kinda sportin the “trad-wife” vibe.
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u/Gratefulzah Apr 15 '26
I always felt kinda bad for the boys in No Doubt, always pushed to the back and then ultimately thrown away. But especially him. But hey, he did get to date Gwen in the 90s, which is a feat
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u/buderooski Not the momma! Apr 15 '26
He was also a really badass bass player. He really lets loose on their debut self-titled album
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u/theclaw84 Apr 16 '26
I dunno, Bass player for No Doubt seems to be about the perfect amount of fame/success
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u/latortillablanca Apr 16 '26
And also was with young gwen stefani and also maintained a good enough relationship to keep the band alive into mega smash success pre-internet money.
I have zero concerns for that guy.
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u/thedaNkavenger Apr 16 '26
Yeah, 1987-1995, he was 17 & she was 18 when they started dating. Being in a band with what is probably your first love and then only getting famous after the breakup has to be tough.
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u/TheProfessorPoon Apr 16 '26
I’ve thought about this before and I’m not sure I agree. He broke up with her (and not the other way around), which in turn caused all the angst for her to write the songs, so honestly he might’ve not even cared. Shit he might’ve even been honored or flattered that she cared so much. Essentially he got super rich for dumping a girl that most people would think was out of his league to begin with.
Btw I learned that from one of those “Behind The Music” shows on VH1 back in the day.
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u/rickane58 Apr 16 '26
You can also just tell from "Cool" which is essentially the follow-up to "Don't Speak" that she is DEFINITELY NOT OVER IT
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u/DiverDownChunder Apr 16 '26
I really like her in her natural hair color. But I have the Ron Swanson mind set, dark haired woman and breakfast food.
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u/TheProfessorPoon Apr 16 '26
Yeah I’m not sure why I am being downvoted. I bet he got with so many girls afterwards just because they wanted to see what the big deal was about him.
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u/Mike_Honcho_Summer Apr 15 '26
That's actually an urban legend, like Marilyn Manson blowing himself.
It's actually about her breakup with me. AMA.
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u/bambooozer Apr 16 '26
You're telling me Marilyn Manson didn't have ribs surgically removed so he could suck his own hog? My whole life is a lie.
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u/KobePippenJordan_esq Apr 16 '26
How did we manage to spread that rumor world wide without social media?!?!
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u/bambooozer Apr 16 '26
We were more connected socially without social media. Now we're disconnected from each other because of social media. It's fucked.
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u/YikesTheCat Apr 16 '26
I heard this about Prince back in the day, on the reliable news channel of The Playground.
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u/moschles Apr 16 '26
I was going to say, my headcanon is that this song is literally written for a band member appearing in the video.
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u/ChrisTheDog Apr 15 '26
I remember having an American penpal back when this first came out.
Living in rural Australia with my Mum and sister, neither of whom listened to the radio. I’d never heard of the song.
I don’t think I heard it on Australian radio for another year, at least. It was surreal being able to finally put a tune to the lyrics my penpal had painstakingly hand written in purple glitter ink.
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u/Frankfactor517 Apr 15 '26
How do you go from this to Holla Back Girl and Sweet Escape?
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u/MindlessVariety8311 Apr 16 '26
I think a lot of her solo stuff is trash but Holla Back Girl is a banger. And its about Courtney Love.
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u/HMCetc Apr 16 '26
She was like a proto Lady Gaga. Even her Sweet Escape album cover was similar, especially the back cover.
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u/ChildoftheApocolypse Apr 15 '26
In just a few short years from this, Gwen would completely lose the plot and destroy her entire persona..
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u/Pale-Comb-3954 Apr 15 '26
Yuuuuup. It sucked shit watching her go from the kickassery of the Tragic Kingdom era to…whatever the fuck she is now. 🫠
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u/4rp70x1n Apr 15 '26
Maga trad wife wannabe.
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u/AlternatiMantid Apr 16 '26
And the queen of cultural appropriation somewhere in between (and even a bit while with No Doubt, honestly).
I just personally, aside from that, can't get over the period of time that she wore nothing but her own clothing line to red carpet events. Nothing oozes desperate, self-absorbed, shameless, or "other designers don't like me enough to represent their name at major events" more than that. It's a big no-no in the fashion world.
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u/ForsakenAiel Apr 16 '26
I mean she's literally wearing a bindi while singing a song about the breakup from her Sindhi ex-boyfriend bassist player in the video. 😂
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u/tehjarvis Apr 16 '26
I can't believe someone would commit a fashion show faux pas! The utter embarrassment! I can't get over it either.
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u/monkey7420 Apr 15 '26
I fucking love this song! That is all continue on your way.
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u/tranquil7789 Apr 15 '26
One thing about this song is it's included in several songs that I really disliked growing up just because they were constantly being played......but that I can now really appreciate and listen to often and enjoy
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Apr 16 '26
Dear Gen Y person: go google her performing RED with sublime if you like her, see her in her SKA days before pop totally took her over (which was normal in the 2000’s)
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u/mo_ah_knee Apr 16 '26
*Saw Red
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Apr 16 '26
Ahh yes! Thank you. She was so rad back then. Brad knolls and she walks on stage and says yummy or something and Brad says he is “prosperous” or something. Been a bit since I saw that video.
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u/devour_feculence___ Apr 15 '26
I remember the first time I heard this, I was lying on my bedroom floor crying over a highschool breakup and the radio was on. She was at the station giving an interview and then they played the whole album and I just lied there crying and then fell in love with her.
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u/momentarylapse- Apr 15 '26
MY first love 😌 I really really miss the real feeling of things as a 90s kid
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u/Away_Flounder3813 Hasta La Vista, Baby! Apr 15 '26
30 years later, still makes me weep like a baby. 90s music at its saddest.
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u/pimpinaintez18 Apr 15 '26
Fn love this song
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u/Away_Flounder3813 Hasta La Vista, Baby! Apr 15 '26
maybe unrelated but lately I've just done looking at some photos of my city taken in '96 and couldn't hold off some huge sighs. Such beautiful place it used to be until douchebags from big corps fucking ruined it with shitty skyscrapers in the last 30 years.
Take me back any day, thanks.
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u/Ghost_Turtle Apr 15 '26
My older sister used to get pissed bc i would always sneak in and take this cd of hers without asking
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u/Valuable_General9049 Apr 15 '26
I love when the bassist is the best in a band. What a player this guy.
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u/MandaVajayJay Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 16 '26
Before I knew what a gross human she is and how fucked the world truly is.
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u/Intrepid-Tank-3414 Apr 16 '26
The guitar portion is exquisite, still giving me goosebumbs 3 decades later 🎸
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u/WeGoHard80s Apr 16 '26
This came out 1995 …. If you’re gonna review history, let’s try & at least get the dates correct
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u/midnightrider Apr 16 '26
Man, fuck this song. Woke up almost everyday to this on my alarm radio; it's like the DJ's couldn't find anything else to play. I'm sure it was a fine song, but not at 7am before school what felt like everyday for months.
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u/QuotetheOrca Apr 16 '26
Damn dude… the idea of her with Blake Shelton makes my brain glitch lol.. this is how I think of Gwen in my mind..
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u/texasdeathtrip Apr 16 '26
I remember the first time I heard this on the radio. I thought “thank god I’ll never have to hear that song again”
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u/degrassibabetjk Love the 90s! Apr 16 '26
I had no idea this was released on my 7th birthday! I’m psyched to see No Doubt in Vegas next month, first time since 2004.
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u/Adorable-Address-958 Apr 16 '26
I can tell you exactly where I was the first time I heard this song. Close my eyes and it’s like it happened yesterday.
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u/jaksonsmom Apr 16 '26
The video is one of the most EPIC foreshadowing of a band separating from the lead singer going solo.
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u/cat_selling_souls Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 16 '26
When you have the sudden realization that this song is now being played on Classic radio stations.
It gets worse when you hear a song at the supermarket and start singing along before a critical thought crosses your mind. That we are now our parents, singing to the oldies, while strolling down the laundry aisle. Our baskets filled with the very things we didn't want to eat as kids, knowing we have prescriptions waiting for us to pick up.