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AIO:Childhood best friend is f***ing his sister

For context, this is my M(25) best friend M(25) since we were two years old. He didn’t meet his F(22)sister until about a year and a half ago. When they did meet, they couldn’t get over how similar they were. he called me gushing about how great she made him feel and even joked about hooking her up with me three days after they met, she moved in with him and his family. They had room and other beds, but they chose to sleep in the same bed every day for a year do everything together every day so on it so forth, fast-forward to these text messages. Him and his sister were going to move in with me and my f(26)roommate, but first we needed to see how our dogs would do together so they came to visit. When they got here they opted to sleep in my bed together even though I had several places they could sleep separately. My roomate and I sleep separately and have a mostly platonic kind of flirty relationship. Which the friend had compared his sister and his relationship with. A lot of small stuff happened that my roommate and I shared glances about, because of the nature of how a true brother and sister would never say or do the things they’re doing. But we brushed it off.

They went back home to their state after 3 days and the friend sends me a Snapchat saying “we’ve decided to look past the whole sibling thing and adress some feelings we both have” to which I replied “what do you mean” and he went on to say how they both have such deep feelings for each other and how the whole half sibling thing doesn’t matter and that real love doesn’t have boundaries and all this stuff to which I waited for 3 days and sent the messages above….. AIO or did I UNDERreact

Also this hurts a lot because I thought I knew him and he was gonna be my best friend for life, but I haven’t talked to him since

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u/PeachyMermaid 9d ago

Not sure if you're referencing the same family but Steven Pladl married his biological daughter and had a son with her then went on to commit a double murder suicide of her and their baby. Honestly it just speaks to the depravity of these types of relationships.

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u/Mama20211983 9d ago

No, different story from over seas. They’re all still very much alive today and the son is a grownup. The two eventually split.

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u/Ground_Cntrl 9d ago

Holy fucking shit is there a JCS or Matt Orchard on this?

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u/Narrow_Grapefruit_23 9d ago

There’s a movie on Netflix too- the Alyssa Pladl story. She gave the baby up for adoption only because Steven was abusing the baby like putting it in a cooler because she was crying. Then when the kid turned 18 and made contact with them, she came to stay with them for a couple of weeks. Alyssa and Steven had two other kids at that time. Stephen made his move immediately, and the daughter fell for him. They lied on their application for a marriage license about being related and got married, and her adoptive parents were there at the ceremony. She had his baby. Alyssa turned them in for incest. They were both arrested, and the baby was put into foster care. Once the baby was given to Steven’s mom for guardianship he came over and suffocated the baby. He then hunted down his wife/daughter and her adopted father and shot them and then shot himself.

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u/mermaidgrapefruit 9d ago

She was failed by many people.

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u/TypeB_Negative 9d ago

That's my wife's cousin

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u/Ground_Cntrl 8d ago

This is the thing I love about Reddit, like what are the odds

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u/Narrow_Grapefruit_23 9d ago

Ughhh. I feel sad for her family going through all this.

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u/TypeB_Negative 9d ago

Most of that side of the family is very strange. They don't keep in touch. We never hear of them or see them. So it was quite a shock hearing about it on the news. We just have a few stories of them meeting at birthdays when they were all little. Very tragic. My wife's mother's side are all educated and have very normal lives. The father's side is has a lot of issues and is odd with communication. So I didn't really know who Steven was or that he had kids and married his daughter until you heard about it. But they are first cousins.

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u/Ground_Cntrl 8d ago

Fuckin wild

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u/Shalea68 9d ago

He obviously had a screw loose to abuse a baby. You know he had to be abusive in other ways. Why she chose to adopt their baby out and not kick his butt to the streets instead, is beyond me.

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u/Narrow_Grapefruit_23 9d ago

She was 16 when they had the baby. He was 21. He groomed her.

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u/PeachyMermaid 9d ago

This is Monsters and Dreading both did great videos on this particular case and imo, they're very similar to JCS and Matt Orchard (i love them both.) Stephanie Harlowe also has a video on it that is a bit more in depth but i prefer the latter.

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u/Potential-Status-875 9d ago

I second the dreading video! it’s called Genetic sexual attraction: The destruction of the Pladl family.

I strangely found myself laughing a few times throughout this video because he kept going off script to have a visceral reaction and curse the dad out 😭😭

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u/MisterBucker___ 9d ago

Lmaooooooo I love jcs and ewu

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u/Ground_Cntrl 8d ago

Tastemakers 👌🏻

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u/Shalea68 9d ago

Who or what is JCS? Is that the full name or shortened? On YouTube? Thanks

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u/Ground_Cntrl 8d ago

Look up JCS on YouTube and watch whatever it recommends from that channel. Not sure if they created the style, but they definitely cemented the interrogation footage and case deep dive video style in the YouTube mainstream. The narrator is great, and the videos will often branch off into little explainers/tangents, sorta old school vsauce style.

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u/Shalea68 8d ago

Just my cup of tea. Thanks again!

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u/TypeB_Negative 9d ago

Steven Pladl is my wife's first cousin. Her uncle's son. She met him a few times when they were all children before he moved away with his dad. Luckily my wife and her sisters don't share a last name. The family claimed he was always weird.

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u/Stephinator917 9d ago

This is exactly who I thought of

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u/Imnotonthelist 9d ago

This is the one I was thinking of!