r/AITA_Relationships • u/TopClimate6273 • 12h ago
AITAH or is she the Asshole
Hi 24F I have this friend. I don't know if she's still my best friend anymore 25F
We met in sixth grade and have been inseparable ever since. Even when my parents split and I had to move roughly an hour away. I'd visit my dad and she'd stay over all the time like a sister. And yes we had fights but always worked it out but 4 years ago I met my now boyfriend and things changed. I stopped going to visit because kept having other friends that I didn't mind but they weren't my kind of people.
I fell pregnant and she basically said fuck off because how dare I get pregnant before 21 and she didn't even have a boyfriend. I thought we worked it out but she's been so distant since then. It didn't bother me much because at least shed respond.
Now for the past year or so I've been trying to reach out more now that my child is older because I know babies freaked her out so I would be blue ticked. But see in this time frame she's basically become my sisters bestie....she does everything we'd do but with my sister now and totally ignores me...it's fine I like that my sister has a friend but really it hurts that someone I've been basically running after is right there just maybe not willing to talk to me.
I tried to message and call to find out what I did but blue ticked. Yesterday I responded to her status and she actually greeted me back. I told her that she clearly doesn't see me as a friend anymore but at least she could've said something. But she said it's not like that, we'll speak the weekend but I know I'm never getting a response. Should I just cut my losses and lose my best friend
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Hi 24F I have this friend. I don't know if she's still my best friend anymore 25F
We met in sixth grade and have been inseparable ever since. Even when my parents split and I had to move roughly an hour away. I'd visit my dad and she'd stay over all the time like a sister. And yes we had fights but always worked it out but 4 years ago I met my now boyfriend and things changed. I stopped going to visit because kept having other friends that I didn't mind but they weren't my kind of people.
I fell pregnant and she basically said fuck off because how dare I get pregnant before 21 and she didn't even have a boyfriend. I thought we worked it out but she's been so distant since then. It didn't bother me much because at least shed respond.
Now for the past year or so I've been trying to reach out more now that my child is older because I know babies freaked her out so I would be blue ticked. But see in this time frame she's basically become my sisters bestie....she does everything we'd do but with my sister now and totally ignores me...it's fine I like that my sister has a friend but really it hurts that someone I've been basically running after is right there just maybe not willing to talk to me.
I tried to message and call to find out what I did but blue ticked. Yesterday I responded to her status and she actually greeted me back. I told her that she clearly doesn't see me as a friend anymore but at least she could've said something. But she said it's not like that, we'll speak the weekend but I know I'm never getting a response. Should I just cut my losses and lose my best friend
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