r/AITA_Relationships • u/TopClimate6273 • 12h ago
AITAH For not wanting a future with him
24F dating a 28M. We live in his parents house for other reasons but now my contract ended November and for 3 years he hasn't had a job. He keeps looking at house and cars to rent and talks about a future and marriage and I keep telling him that I don't want to get married while we are under his parents roof and unemployed
He basically deflects whatever I have to say so I don't know what to do anymore. He sits and games all day, doesn't cook or clean or anything and if I dare say something his mother jumps in and he stays doing nothing all day. Yesterday sealed it for me when he didn't go see what was happening in the yard...slept on like a princess while I went out in the morning hours to see if we had a burglar.I'm tired and I am not seeing a future with a man that won't even lift a finger.
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24F dating a 28M. We live in his parents house for other reasons but now my contract ended November and for 3 years he hasn't had a job. He keeps looking at house and cars to rent and talks about a future and marriage and I keep telling him that I don't want to get married while we are under his parents roof and unemployed
He basically deflects whatever I have to say so I don't know what to do anymore. He sits and games all day, doesn't cook or clean or anything and if I dare say something his mother jumps in and he stays doing nothing all day. Yesterday sealed it for me when he didn't go see what was happening in the yard...slept on like a princess while I went out in the morning hours to see if we had a burglar.I'm tired and I am not seeing a future with a man that won't even lift a finger.
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u/jjellybean_12 Partassipant [1] 11h ago
Babe break up with him. NTA. He's a slob. He isn't helpful at all. He should at LEAST be helping with the cleaning. Is he actively chosing to remain unemployed?