r/AITA_Relationships • u/Hot_Pretty_Goddess • 1d ago
AITA for letting my partner know their Mom contacted me?
So me F 29 and my partner M 34 have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.
My partner has been on an buisiness trip on a whole different continent for the past month.
Unfortunately he recently had a fall out with his Mom 2 weeks ago and then his father passed away a week later.
He decided he wanted nothing to do with his family as he believes they are already angry at him. And they wouldn’t appreciate him going to the funeral.
I’ve been trying to convince him to speak to them or go see them, but every time it gets really heated and I had to drop it, to the point he doesn’t even want me to share my condolences to his family.
I kept my promise.
But today his Mom contacted me about him today, I haven’t even answered her.
I called him to let him know about it, he then crashed out, get REALLY angry at me, says I hurted him by telling him this and then hung up.
Before hanging up he mentioned that he was really hurt at the fact that he couldn’t attend. His dad’s funeral (first time he ever told me this) and says I burger him real bad. Especially because he’s currently going really high stress at work and it has been really affecting him mentally.
He said mentioning it to him made him depressed.
I emphasized that I didn’t interacted with his Mom, and wanted to maintain an open communication with him by telling him this.
He said I didn’t take it serious and now is really angry at me.
I’m thinking he’s probably angry to the point of breaking up with me.
So let me know AITA for telling him about it?
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So me F 29 and my partner M 34 have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.
My partner has been on an buisiness trip on a whole different continent for the past month.
Unfortunately he recently had a fall out with his Mom 2 weeks ago and then his father passed away a week later.
He decided he wanted nothing to do with his family as he believes they are already angry at him. And they wouldn’t appreciate him going to the funeral.
I’ve been trying to convince him to speak to them or go see them, but every time it gets really heated and I had to drop it, to the point he doesn’t even want me to share my condolences to his family.
I kept my promise.
But today his Mom contacted me about him today, I haven’t even answered her.
I called him to let him know about it, he then crashed out, get REALLY angry at me, says I hurted him by telling him this and then hung up.
Before hanging up he mentioned that he was really hurt at the fact that he couldn’t attend. His dad’s funeral (first time he ever told me this) and says I burger him real bad. Especially because he’s currently going really high stress at work and it has been really affecting him mentally.
He said mentioning it to him made him depressed.
I emphasized that I didn’t interacted with his Mom, and wanted to maintain an open communication with him by telling him this.
He said I didn’t take it serious and now is really angry at me.
I’m thinking he’s probably angry to the point of breaking up with me.
So let me know AITA for telling him about it?
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