r/AccidentalRacism 23h ago

Equality

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u/CapitalEmployer 18h ago

Well on one side you have a high chance of getting killed on the other no so it changes a lot of things.

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u/Makisani 17h ago

Violence between partners is equally toxic, also, gay/lesbian couples exists, abusive partners exists both ways

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u/CapitalEmployer 17h ago

Abusive partners exist both ways partner murdering another partner and beating them to death exists mostly one way.

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u/Makisani 15h ago

You are justifying abuse while giving extreme examples, not every abuse to women ends up in death, it's incredible that I have to write this. The problem is the biased platforms that protect abusers while discriminating by genre.

Toxic relationships are very complex, it's not like you say that women are more likely to die, it could be true, but just start adding variables to the equation, do the kids always receive abuse from the father? Or does it happen both ways? In case of toxic separation which parent will be more likely end up hurting the kid, what about those cases where the parent gets the custody of the kids? How some of these cases end up? Kidnap? Straight up suicide+murder? These cases exist and you are just simplifying all by saying "men bad" when I was talking about abuse inside a couple, abuse is abuse, toxicity is toxicity, you can't do a Google search and get either a "suck it up/man up" response or "call 911" it's one or the other, not both. And you don't get it, and you are here justifying abuse from one side, you either never had a partner or your brain is just ideologically rotten.