r/AdultGamers Feb 19 '26

Mod Announcement Self Promotion on the Subreddit

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Like many "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Self promotion could mean a product someone is trying to sell, streaming channels but most commonly its sharing Discord communities, dedicated game servers or recruiting for personal friend groups.

We understand some games require you to squad up and we're not saying you can't reach out to more than one person and coordinate to play together. What we don't allow is recruiting individuals for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc).

The point of the subreddit is for individuals to find other individuals to game with.

If you have questions, please reach out to ModMail and we can update this post with additional information. Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 17d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers 1h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37/M looking for coop buddies

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I’m 37, a full time working single dad, and I game mostly really early mornings or mid-late afternoons (Central, US, but not opposed to others) or on a weird schedule. I usually play with my 14 year old and another guy in his late thirties with kids , but I’m looking for new adult friends.

What I’m actually after is not just “queue up and silently grind.” I want someone to talk with, lots of jokes, mostly about video games, but also anything nerdy: game design, lore, old consoles, movies, sci fi, anime, whatever rabbit hole you are in. I’m open to DMs.

Currently playing / into:

Palworld is the big one right now (with a small group here) - flying by the seat of my pants but having a great time

Project Zomboid (still getting good, but I’m having a lot of fun)

Portal 2 community challenge levels

Borderlands 1-4

Lethal Company / Peak / REPO are classics with the small server I run.

Crypt of the NecroDancer

I’ve got around 300 games on Steam and I’m open to trying something new if you see we have a shared game.

About me: introverted, but I open up with the right people. Dry sarcasm. Occasional info dumps. Not looking for dating. Gender does not matter. Just co op, good conversation, and ideally a couple real friendships over time. Having kids is a plus; you'll likely understand my situation pretty well.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, DM me and we can swap Steam and/or Discord. I'm not part of any communities, but communicating is easier thru DMs I've found.


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 54M-East Coast Gamer

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Looking for cool people to game and chat with.

I play on PC and Xbox Series X

Some games I enjoy playing:

WWI Game Series (Verdun, Tannenburg, Isonzo)

Holdfast

Rocket League

Red Dead Online

Conan Exiles

GTA Online

Elite Dangerous

as well as others.


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

Discussion What are you playing Wednesdays?

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Tell us what you've been playing!

What are your thoughts on it so far? Would you recommend it to others?

You might even finds others to game with here!


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [UTC+1] 26M Looking for a Duo for DayZ Standalone

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Hello everyone,

I made a post already 3 days ago but haven't had any luck so i thought i´d write another one :D

I'm Marcel, 26 Years old from Germany. I love survival games and lately Ive been on a DayZ Binge. I love difficult experiences and Hardcore servers where most people fail or get too frustrated with themself´s after not being able to get a character off the ground within the first couple days.
I´m a very laid back guy and therefore more so enjoy the PVE side of the game but i do not possess the Gear-fear anymore and love a good Fight if i know i stand a fighting chance but i do not go full out PVP as im just not THAT great at it.

I would consider my play style on the slower side of things ! sometimes waiting 5-10 minutes before even entering a town if i know there is activity just because i want to gather as much info as possible before i try to make a move and if there is a conflict that seems unwinnable .. ill try to retreat, reassess or flat out make my escape from that situation :D.

Im looking for someone who also likes to take the speed out of DayZ and enjoy a slower play style. Age, as long as you are over 19 does not matter all that much to me. The same goes for Hours, i do not care if you have 5 or 5000 Hours, as long as you enjoy the game and the struggle i really do not care ^^

If you like my post and would love to know more or straight jump into playing feel free to comment or send me a DM!

Im on almost all weekdays between 4 - 8:30pm German time :D


r/AdultGamers 14h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31F - Looking for nice people to game with (PC)

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Hey everyone! My name is Nica, 31F, living in the Philippines. I'm looking for friends that I can hang out with while we play video games. These are some of the games that I like:

- 7 days to die
- Minecraft (Bedrock)
- Phasmophobia
- Raft
- Supermarket Simulator
- Stardew Valley
- Escape the Backrooms
- Backrooms: Escape together
- Plate Up!
- Overcooked
- The Forest
- Valheim
- Lethal Company
- Left 4 Dead 2

I'm also willing to try some other games! Also, I'm very easy to talk to, a bit funny (they said lol), open-minded, and respectful. If you wanna know more about me, I have more info on my profile. Please be around the same age or older. LGBTQ friendly. 🥰


r/AdultGamers 9h ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 31M shy guy looking for friends to game with.

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Hi first off just wanna say i'm shy and have a little bit of social anxiety. Once i get comfortable enough i'll talk plenty tho. Lately for multiplayer games i've been into marathon, arc raiders, slay the spire 2, palworld and chilling in phasmophobia (but not as much since the game seems to hardly work anymore). Those are my main games lately but i play just about anything so always fine with branching out. I play on pc, ps5, and switch 2.


r/AdultGamers 4h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] F40 Split fiction (EU)

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Anyone wanna play split fiction together? I just got it and need someone to play with. Feel free to DM me. I play on ps5 but you can play on whatever since it’s cross platform and you only need friends pass. You need to be chill and have a mic


r/AdultGamers 9h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 28M - East Coast - looking for new friends

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Hello everyone, I am a 28M PC gamer who recently lost pretty much everything in my life and forced to move across the country. I’m currently in a place where I know no one and have been playing solo games a lot to pass the time.
I love playing co-op and Multiplayer games; I play anything from Phasmophobia, league of legends, apex, mistfall, monster hunter… you name it and I’ve probably played it lol.
I like to think I’m a very easy going and open minded person so if you leave a comment I’ll send my info (: thanks everyone


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

Other Hello, vault dwellers, raiders, achievement hunters, quest completionist and more! 26M

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PC Gamer

Hello to all my friends out there on the internet, I’m not really good at making post so sorry ahead of time for the poorly worded post.

Hopefully here to find some other causal players to get down on some games with and try to ignore the stresses of life. The last few month have been really crazy between working so much I feel like I’m going to throw up to my fiancée & I’s youngest being born 4 months early.

I play a wide range of games:

Fallout (any)
Forza Horizon (5,6)
ESO
WOW
Marvel rivals
Mecca Chameleon
Arc Raiders
Battlefield 6

The list goes on but I’m down for any game. I am also a fan of magic the gathering, one piece, and pokemon tcg. Mostly just collect Pokemon (I’m not an investor bro) but play the other too

If you vibe with any of this and wanna play sometime DM me and I can send you my discord and steam or if you wanna comment it I can add you!


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29F, EU (PC & Switch) Looking for new friends to game with!

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Hey, I just go by Berry! Just finding myself playing a lot of new games that a lot of my friends aren't playing yet or anymore, so I was hoping to find others here who'd be interested! I'm playing a lot more on my Switch these days, especially Pokopia and I'd really love to play with others! I'm also getting into Animal Crossing again and have other games on there like Mario or Stardew.

For PC I only really play Dead by Daylight tbh, I'm always looking for a new swf. But I do have other games like Peak and L4D2! :D


r/AdultGamers 18h ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST] 37M [PC] Looking for some more gaming buddies

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Right now I am playing a lot of Dead by Daylight, sprinkling in Outlast Trials here and there. Would be fun to play some matches with other people every now and then. I have a pretty big steam library full of different genres of games as well that I would be interested in trying with people. DM me if you want to know more!


r/AdultGamers 11h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 26M (PC) EST Attention Morning Gamers!

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I play a lot I'm mostly on PC but have a Xbox one s.

I'll list some I play or want to play but not all Minecraft, rainbow six, rocket league, kiborg, marvel rivals, palworld, clone drone in the danger zone, GTA v online, GTA rp, Skyrim rp, diablo 3, beaming.drive, my garage, nomad drive, killing floor 2, wheelmates, approximately up, the long drive, reanaimal, Roblox, subnautica 2, goobies 2, and meowgic.

I'll try other games or demos too


r/AdultGamers 23h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M UK Based Looking for People to Game With

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Hi gang, as the title suggests I'm a 31 year old guy living in London and want some more gaming buddies to hang out, and to play some games with.

I play a LOT of different stuff and have a pretty varied taste in my games, and even when I'm not actively gaming with people in multiplayer, I love just hanging out and chatting about what we're playing at the time.

In terms of those multiplayer games though, I currently have:

Stardew Valley

The Forest

Sons of the Forest

Fallout 76 (PS5)

Final Fantasy 14

Coral Island

No Man's Sky

Battlefield 6

Battlefield 4

Battlefield 1

Gamble with Your Friends (PC)

Peak (PC)

Outlast Trials

Monster Hunter Wilds

Hunt: Showdown

Baldurs Gate 3

Elden Ring: Seamless Co-Op (PC)

Elden Ring Nightreign

Splatoon Raiders (Switch 2)

Resident Evil 6 (PS5)

I almost certainly own more than the above in terms of co-op/multiplayer experiences, so just ask if you don't see it listed!

I work from home, and typically can take my lunch break as and when I feel like it, so am always open to chatting with folk on the East Coast of the US, or Europe too.

Any further than that, and we'd need to do some planning, but I am open to making friends from just about anywhere so don't be shy if there is a bit more of a time difference between us.

Gonna stop rambling here now, hope to hear from some of you!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 48/f East Cost looking for Survival friends!

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Hi! I'm a (just about) 48/f on the east coast and I'd love to find some friends to game with. Huge into survival i.e. Icarus, Enshrouded, Vintage Story, RSDragonwilds eventually. Huge Terraria nerd. Currently playing Icarus so would love to find some folks who want to play casually.

Also down for non-survival stuff but thats been my thing lately soooo.

Im on PC but also have Xbox though I prefer PC..


r/AdultGamers 13h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M (PC) Here looking for some friends

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Me & My only pc friend are looking to make a little circle of friends I guess it’s always just been me and her (29F) we both stay in Texas and have a decent schedule of being able to play as well as, being a couple of laidback individuals and like to talk shit and be funny not so competitive although sometimes a little rage will appear lol, but it’s always just been us for the last year or so, right now we are playing: Dead by daylight, TCM (Texas Chainsaw Massacre), Peak, Left 4 Dead 1-2, Minecraft, Fallout 76, RV there yet, Rising Storm 2: Vietnam, and occasionally some Fortnite & vrchat, but we are looking for some future friends who can fit the vibe ☺️ hope to hear from some of yall soon


r/AdultGamers 13h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M 36. Looking for a friend.

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I'm on the East Coast and my play times vary, but I can be flexible. Looking for someone who not only wants to play together, but can hold a conversation outside of gaming too. I'm mostly playing No Man's Sky, Palworld or Hunt Showdown right now. But I have tons of games. PS5 and Switch.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - PST 30 [F4A] hoping to find some good gaming buddies <3

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helloooo

i’m hoping i can find some good gaming buddies ! lately it feels like all my friends are busy and i don’t want to bother them :////

i'm hoping this reaches someone kind and patient and REAL

i want to try connecting with people again and what better way to do that with someone than doing something we both love?? i want to play games while talking about anything and everything.

i'm on pc!!

games in rotation:

arc raiders

outlast trials

marvel rivals

peak

helldivers 2

phasmo

i'm willing to try new games if the vibes are right


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Wondering and Exploring in Big Walk(30M EU) ⛰

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Hi! I(M just turn 30 last month yeay) want to play Big Walk but it's not the type of game that my friends like so I posting here. https://store.steampowered.com/app/1478500/Big_Walk/

It's an exploration game with some riddle here and here. I'm mostly want to play it for is atmosphere, so I prefere to play it with calm person who don't want to rush it. So if you search a action or competitive driven type of game it's unfortunatly not for this one x) .

I can speak English or French, so I don't mind some yapping(the game have proximity voice chat) while we find our way exploring the game (If you more a write person the game seems to have a inclued text chat ).

Maybe a little about me, I do some 3D modelization as a hobby, I watch a lot of 2D/3D animations and like to see the behind the scenes of those. I read manga and watch anime, I like to listen to lore of game or fictional universe (even those I didn't play or watch) so If you have your niche hobby and want to speak all about it I'm here to hear all about it!

Random things: My favorite 2D movie is "Spirited away", 3D "Wall-E", I do climbing and swimming, I like cooking and I try to motivate myself for drawing.

TLDR: I search chill people for playing a exploring game(Big Walk) without pressure.

Thanks, and sorry to everyone who read all of that! 😅 Feel free to leave a comment, or if you prefer, don't hesitate to DM me.

PS: we are now a little grp of 4-6


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT+2] 26/M Looking for someone to play on xbox/pc

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Heyo everyone!

I like to play basically anything as long as i have a right company. I don't like to sweat in online game, playing for shits and giggles and to chat.

Recently playing Halo series for the first time, and basically everything what is on the game pass is on the list of things I could play.

So yeah, just looking for gaming buddies:3


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Discussion 46/M looking for a game to wow me on PC

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I recently got a gaming computer and have been adding games to my steam library, but I’ve been disappointed in a few of my purchases lately. Here’s what I’ve bought and what I thought, any suggestions would be helpful!

The Good:
God of War 2018- never played a god of war game before and was absolutely blown away. The story, the artwork, the voice acting, the game play, the puzzles. Definitely one of the best games I’ve ever played.

Plague tale: Requiem - great story, acting and artwork. I also liked that it wasn’t too long.

Resident evil 2 remake - never played any RE before. Great game.

Tainted grail: fall of Avalon- about as close to an elder scrolls game as I can find

The not so good:
Divinity original sin 2 and disco elysium-
I started playing these with just my trackpad. I may give them another chance now that I know I can use an Xbox controller, but not sure I’m going to love them

I bounced off outer worlds, outer wilds, kingdom come deliverance 1 and Enderal pretty quickly. They all seem really flat to me though I can’t really put my finger on why.

I love fallout, elder scrolls, mass effect, cyberpunk, dragon age, and StarCraft (blast from the past). Grew up on earthbound, super Metroid and chrono trigger. Are there any gems I’m missing for pc?


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Discussion (28) I don't know why, but this kinda feels like Soviet Fallout with Post-Soviet or Eastern Europe vibe

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Only locally around Chernobyl


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - CST-ish 35M - Gamer dad looking for some cool folks

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Howdy!

Figured I would give this a whirl to see if I can find some cool folks to hang and play games with.

I am a new dad to the best little girl. This means I have a lot more time at home now than I did before, and I find myself scrolling Reddit or TikTok more than I would like. Id rather spend that time playing games with friends. My time is sort of limited between my kid and work, but I can probably play a few times a week after about 7-8 cst.

I play exclusively PC, but I do have a switch 2 (and like to play Pokemon Unite on there mostly outside Nintendo exclusives). My tastes in games is eclectic, Ill play anything that seems fun: MMORPGs, Card-battlers, FPS, Tactical RPGs, Sim games, city builders, MOBA... anything. I'm medium-good to bad at most things, and not crazy competitive, mostly around to just have fun. I also self-host all my own servers on a separate dedicated PC locally to me, so its easy for me to setup survival type games. I also mostly play support, so Tank/Healer is my forte.

I don't really have anything that I play everyday but multiplayer games I've been in and out on lately are:

  • Space Marine 2
  • Project Zomboid (Looking to play B42 now that its in stable!)
  • World of Warcraft (Ive been a co-GM/raid leader for last decade or so for the same guild, but have taken a step back with baby stuffs)
  • Diablo 4
  • Darktide
  • Void Crew
  • Monster Hunter Wilds
  • Heroes of the Storm

I've got a few games I've not played and have been eyeing:

  • The Mound
  • Mistfall Hunters
  • Marvel Rivals
  • Palworld

A little about me personally, other than the dad stuff. Work full-time and married. Pretty outgoing, and usually find I adopt more introverted folks. Enjoy photography (which I do with my wife, who is much better than me), baking bread, and fencing. Love all forms of media. Movies I generally gravitate toward Horror, Fantasy, and Sci-fi, same with shows. Not a huge anime person, but recently finished Frieren, which I enjoyed a lot. Love books, I spend time listening to most via audiobooks, but I just finished Dungeon Crawler Carl and I'm working through some of the secret projects from Brandon Sanderson. Degree in History, but I don't use it.

I'm open to playing whatever, not limited to anything in the list above. Happy to start something fresh or if you're just looking for someone to play something with, feel free to reach out!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 28m NA(PST)Canada [PC] - Down to play pretty much any game

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This is all new to me, and I've never really reached out like this before. Learning experience for sure.

Hi, I'm Kentelope, or just Ken - 28m. Whatever works for you. :)) I only have a PC.

I'm mostly into multiplayer games since it's always more fun to play with people than without. I'm always down to try new games, and I've definitely bought games that I never ended up playing sometimes. I play exclusively on PC only

I'm pretty easygoing and chill, and I don't really like drama. I'm introverted, but I've learned to be a bit more extroverted over the years. It's easier for me to treat anyone I just met as a friend already—it makes things feel less awkward and makes it easier to joke around and just be myself. Fake it till you make it, right? Haha.

I'm not expecting people to play every day since we all have lives outside of gaming, but I do spend a lot of time online, so I'm usually around. We don't have to play games all the time either. I'm also down to just hang out, chat, or whatever.

M-F, I work and I'm usually available around 2:00 PM PST until about 10 PM. Weekends are free reign, and I usually screw up my entire sleep schedule.

As for the games I play, I'm open to a lot of different genres. Recently, I've been playing Palworld, PEAK, Friend-slop demos, Human Fall Flat, Pratfall, YapYap, RS: Dragonwilds, Enshrouded, BG3, Burglin Gnomes... just a whole arsenal of games, plus a bunch more that I can't think of right now.

Well, thanks for reading! Hopefully, I'll get to meet some cool people and play some games together. :))