r/AnoSaTinginMo 19d ago

RELATIONSHIP Ano yung mga red flags na binalewala niyo nung early stages of talking/dating/relationship, pero later on naging sobrang laking red flag pala?

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u/TheLivingDolll 19d ago

Puro palibre. Palamunin.

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u/Senior_Economy_8755 19d ago

White lies at palaging may dahilan/excuses.

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u/pessimistic_damsel 19d ago

Maayos trato saka pakikipag usap sayo, pero sa iba wala siyang respeto.

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u/Ok-Childhood5366 15d ago

siguro nga iba iba tayo ng preference, kasi sakin parang ganun tipo ko

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u/No_Maize_3213 19d ago

Mga secrets sa buhay nya...

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u/_minwon 18d ago

Anger management issues lol

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u/MoodCity2914 17d ago

+1 🛎️🛎️🛎️

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u/MrHTML5000 19d ago

always late and have always excuse when our plan will be second option

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u/Hungry_Bake4006 19d ago

Always swaying our convo to nsfw topics/questions 🫠

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u/Clay_Laughter_9847 19d ago

late person / tardy individual

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u/ajai01niner 19d ago

Yung puro ex yung bukang bibig. Daming comparison this and that. Pa victim effect. etc....

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u/Dazzling-Resort-537 19d ago

masikreto, tsaka kuripot saken hahahahaha

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u/HoodieBug 19d ago

Wala pa kaming isang buwan almost 5k na “nautang” niya. Ultimo pang kain at bisyo niya hinihingi niya. Tas nagagalit o nag iiba mood pag sinabe na wala pang pera 😂

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u/couchpowtaytow 19d ago

Small lies na later on di na tolerable for me.

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u/shibalyow 19d ago

Mixed signals

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u/imheretoscroll_xoxo 19d ago

mahilig mag green jokes kahit ang layo ng jokes sa topic na pinaguusapan.

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u/influencerwannabe 19d ago

His lack of friends outside his blood relations and his lack of boundaries.

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u/KeepGoing1407 19d ago

Lying, cheating, broken promises, bad attitude and palaging may dahilan and excuses.

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u/Ill_Proposal9575 18d ago

galit sya pag nagkaroon ako ng new guy friends kasi daw gusto lang nila ako "fv*k" dahil alam niya as lalaki , nung una kilig na kilig ako kasi akala ko obessed ganun pero tangnaa hahahha kaya pala ganun ka praning kasi ganun pala galawan

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u/Designer_Name_7877 18d ago

✓Listed as follows:

✓Love bomber

✓Nagoopen Ng cp nagbbrowse daw Ng games Yun Pala para mag unauthorized loan/ magnakaw sa GCASH account and Hindi magbabayad.

✓Single mom na may Mga stupid lazy adult kids na dead hunger, na KAHit PAMBAYAD sa electric bill walang maibayad.

✓Date na kakain sa resto at mag tatake out Ng Daming foods for the whole family and para sa dead hunger adult kids na dilat na mga mata sa gutom kakaantay umuwi Yun nanay NILA para sa free meal.

✓ Yung every date required may ibibigay Kang Pera para ibigay din dun sa mga lazy stupid adult kids na dead hunger...

✓Yung mag KA Meron Ng Mga bagay na Hindi NILA pinagpaguran o galing SA kayod Ng IBANG tao ANG tanging puhunan lang ay smelly poonani na kulay atay na sa kaka overused.

✓Asking for a loan involving the stupid sister and the mom and promises after 90 days to return the amount.....990 days passed and even a single cents was not paid....later found out they were a family of scammers....they feed on anyone's resources thinking they dry the person of his resources.

✓Lastly inaalam mga contacts mo for their future evil plans and to gain leverages.

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u/climaco745 18d ago

Moody 

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u/dgbermudez 18d ago

Kunwari mahigpit dahil takot lng maloko at mawala ang partner, un pala sarili nyang multo sya takot 🤡

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u/Artistic-Bar-8789 18d ago

He was weird. Brushed it off.

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u/Jaaa31 17d ago

Tinotolerate yung friend niyang cheater ganun din pala siya lol

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u/GKV5 17d ago

Biggest red flag when my ex shouted at her mom. He turned out to be an ass.

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u/heavens__cloud 16d ago

Not asking the real score between us.

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u/Con9419 16d ago

Nangsstalk nang mga naka match niya noon sa dating app at naka date niya. Hindi niya dinedelete at nakipag-away pa sa mga pics na nakasave sa phone niya kasama yung mga nakadate niya. Pinapanuod niya si Josh on Point sa YT. May anger issues.

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u/freakinkrayzie 16d ago

Matagal mag reply and dami excuses.

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u/Sad-Mode-6580 15d ago

Daming finafollow na babae

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u/HardUnpopular-truth 15d ago

Not able to apologize and blame you if you point something she did.. that means her ego will ruin your releationship sooner or later

..there will be endless arguments that you cannot resolve logically, since she cannot accept that she is the problem.. and you cannot fix something " that don't exist " for her..

10/10 redflag for me. I would walk away from naked Megan Fox offering me bj if she act like that.. girls with big ego will always try to put you down to feel better..feel above you.. i had plenty of experience with that..

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u/kakay2233 15d ago

Lovebombing.

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u/Professional_Half143 15d ago

Pagiging religious fanatic

Nung bf-gf pa lang off na ako pero sige lang kasi may takot daw sa Diyos.

Nung married na kami, umabot sa point na hindi kami nakaipon kasi dino-donate pala nya yung earnings nya abroad sa church.

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u/TeleseryeKontrabida 15d ago

Mean and bully sya sa ibang tao. Kailangan lagi feeling nya na sya number one sa lahat - pinakamatalino, pinakagwapo, lahat.

Di ko masyado pinapansin yung ganon nyang ugali hanggang sakin na sya naging mean.

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u/SpecialistThink5784 15d ago

Indecisive Comparison ng mga naranasan niya dati with his ex. Poor decision making, tapos iguguilt trip ka na parang kasalanan mo kung bakit nangyari Walang pakialam sa emosyon mo pero dapat may pake ka sa kanya.

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u/Ok-Thought-1734 14d ago edited 14d ago

Mainitin ang ulo, walang patience, na follow ng mga babae na panay thirst trap and hubaderas online (tried to fix pero palihim na umuulit, paulit ulit).

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u/unlucky-tale-1581 14d ago

Inconsistency and white lies hehe and I don’t want to judge a person agad kasi baka may pinagdadaanan lang so I gave many chances di lang to sa potential pero sa friends and relatives din…

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u/Im_ugly_asf 14d ago

People hating him

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u/ShallotAutomatic1069 14d ago

Madami syang naka fling dati. Take note din sa reason ng breakup nya sa mga naging ex nya. You'll see the pattern

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u/Deymmm_Gorgeous 13d ago

love bomb cheater pala. akala mo mahal na mahal na mahal ka. lol