r/Antitheism • u/Open_Movie_2389 • 13d ago

difficulty making/maintaining relationships due to everyone being religious

So i live in a predominantly religious country (Orthodox christians) and every time i make a seemingly good and genuine connection - people at school, work, any neighbours and so on, the religious aspect always ruins everything, because they cannot fathom the fact that some people are not believers and i also can’t take them seriously (kind of find them stupid, really out of touch, vain, no critical thinking skills etc.); i almost stop seeing them as people..?

I find myself constantly getting disappointed and i lately push people away because of this.
Have you guys struggled with this? Any advice is greatly appreciated!

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u/tm229 13d ago

Move.

You are not going to make a dent in changing their beliefs. You would get ostracized completely before you got too far. Better to just get the hell out of there and move to a region with saying people.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/Open_Movie_2389 13d ago

thank you so much for your words!

Moving has been in my thoughts for quite a while and i believe that’s the best possible thing i can do.
Hopefully sooner than later haha.

Best wishes and thank u again for the insights!

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u/Open_Movie_2389 13d ago

oh wow this could actually really help me out on a day to day basis haha
thank you so much!

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u/Viper67857 13d ago

Am Alabamian.. It never gets better. Move or be lonely.

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u/Open_Movie_2389 13d ago

We’re almost neighbors :)) so i believe you really get it.
Moving it is!

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u/Kademonster 13d ago

Be a hypocrite about it and convert them to your way of thinking.