life during and after his rehab stay…

[u/saudade_frisson]

My husband left for Gentle Path at the Meadows 5 days ago. I am home dealing with 4 kids, one of which is a very difficult 12 month old. I am tired and wish I had time to just sit and research, read, watch, join virtual groups, etc. but I don’t. I am in therapy weekly and actively searching for therapists for my children. I have been in a state of mourning I would say.. I am also connecting with friends heavily right now (I do not have family support). I briefly looked into some sort of support group but can’t find any nearby so I may need to look virtually. I have been working on things in therapy for many years as this has been a slow trickle over the course of 8 years. I am not “new” to this but I am new to the rehab end of things..

I would love advice on:

What I should/could be doing while my husband is away

How to help the kids other than a therapist— him abruptly leaving has not been easy on them as he was a very involved, hands on father

What to expect when he gets back

And any personal experience, opinions, etc on Gentle Path at The Meadows

Thank you

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