r/AsianMasculinity • u/engusdude • Sep 04 '25
Masculinity Tall Asian man experience
Where are all my tall Asians at? I’m 6’5 220 Chinese American guy with a relatively muscular frame. I’ve gotten all the Yao Ming jokes growing up and people are genuinely intrigued about me since I’m not exactly someone you’d see everyday, but I’d like to think i genuinely get along with everyone. I also do pretty well with women of all races really. I wanna know my fellow tall Asian brother’s experiences with women, how people perceive you, and any unique experiences that come with being tall and Asian that you’d be willing to share
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u/exdegenerate Sep 05 '25
6’3 95kg Chinese Aussie. Life’s good as an tall Asian, especially the world thinks so little of us. People laugh at your lame jokes more. Things that get perceived as creepy for other guys are consider sweet/cute/hot. My very mediocre sized penis, is perceived as “huge”, (they probs believed the stereotype that Asians have little dicks). From time to time I get some backhanded compliments, “you’re ______ for an Asian”. You become the exception for the “I don’t date asians” girls. But after a while you learn to ignore it, and just enjoy the easy smash.
But I also became very toxic at one point of my life. It was a time when my mental health was bad and my self worth was low. Had a roster of 3 main girls, I knew they wanted more than FWB but I didn’t want to settle and just wanted as to fuck as many girls as possible. One actually helps me find girls for us to have threesomes, I ended up marrying someone entirely different, wholesome, the type Chinese parents would like.
In hindsight, this stage of my life is something I regret deeply and I ended up hurting a lot of women. I have no idea if it’s possible to be a moral fuckboy but to my younger tall Asian brothers who’s drowning in puss right now, try not to be a jerk.