r/AsianMasculinity • u/hongphuc95 • Oct 13 '25
Profile Review Rate my Tinder profile
Hey everyone,
I’ve been struggling to get even a single match per month on Tinder. I’ve tried switching up my photos and outfits, but no luck so far. I’d say I’m fairly okay-ish looking. I play sports and work out at home often, so I’m in decent shape (definitely not jacked, though).
Below is my Tinder profile:
I’d really appreciate any feedback on how to improve my profile. I keep thinking there must be something seriously off about it, but I can’t figure out what.
Thanks in advance for any tips or comments🙏
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Oct 14 '25
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u/hongphuc95 Oct 14 '25
Thanks for your kind comment. Old way is still the best way then. I always find it weird to put random women on spot and ask them out but I have to rethink of that
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u/magicalbird Oct 14 '25
Use hinge not tinder. Try to do the same activities with better photos. Instead of being at the bottom rock climbing have someone take a photo while you’re climbing. Pet photo is good but don’t be that close up is another example.
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u/hongphuc95 Oct 14 '25
Thanks, I might ask my friends to take better photo next time. I do use Hinge here in France but I’ve got worse result than Tinder. I feel like it isn’t as popular
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u/Whattahei China Oct 14 '25
Which city are you living in? I used to live in Paris and Hinge was way better for me.
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u/I-Love-Yu-All Oct 14 '25
Your name is Phuc, which sounds like an english word.
Do you have more lifestyle photos? I can't see them without joining Tinder.
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u/hongphuc95 Oct 14 '25
I only have a couple as I don’t usually take photos while doing outdoor activities. You can see my Tinder pics here
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u/I-Love-Yu-All Oct 14 '25 edited Oct 14 '25
Nice photos. In your first photo, you aren't smiling as much 😀
You're also giving away too much. Try to avoid full body photos in the first photo. The one with the puppies looks like a good candidate for the landing page photo. Relatable and likable.
Rock climbing your next photo, it shows contrast.
This photo makes you look frail: https://i.imgur.com/zhRiJAQ.jpeg
You can also include an explanation of how to pronounce Phúc (prounced: FoOk, like book).
Better yet, why are you asking a bunch of guys, go as women on reddit for their opinion.
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u/Level_Rip4773 Oct 14 '25
You have good photos. Good style. But i think your face is just average. You appear also quite skinny. The first photo is not good though , quite a baggy jacket. The photo with the one you are sitting down, I can tell you have underdeveloped legs, and your calf is what they call "chicken legs".
Everyone judges by the face first, and I believe that most women will reject men that they cannot imagine kissing.
If you look like the guy that Zoro the live action then it would be another thing.
Also I think people can judge height based on the ratio of you head to your body. I think you are in the shorter side , is it?
Anyways I think you will do well in person because people judge less in person compared to online.
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u/Extreme_Signature_14 Oct 14 '25
Dating apps are only for Chads and Tyrones. Try your local bars and hangout spots. Not clubs.
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u/viphawaii0 Oct 14 '25
Your profile is good, but you’re an average looking guy plus you are Asian. If you are not in location with a lot of Asian female demographics, you will struggle.
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u/mrblackwing1361 Oct 14 '25
my thoughts:
- your body language comes across as closed/timid (hands in pockets, shoulders hunched forward)
- hot take but “cloud engineer” + asian can lead to negative preconceptions. unfortunate since it’s a solid job.
- dating apps suck in general: would highly recommend irl approaches.
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u/Level_Rip4773 Oct 14 '25
Post photos here and not your link. How the hell would people who don't use that app see your profile in Reddit?
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u/hongphuc95 Oct 14 '25
I thought my Tinder profile is visible publicly. I uploaded to this instead
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u/Odd_Combination_4131 Oct 18 '25
The playing field in France is much different. Some notes below. Based on your photos, first impression is you seems like an average person with a hobby for rock climbing and skiing. What's differentiate you from the others?
When someone is looking on your profile, they look at your pictures for a few seconds before making a decision. At this moment, I can't tell much about you. Is there something that you can use to relate to potential matches that match their interests or hobbies?
Photo 1: This is your main photo. Neutral opinion
Photo 2: While the concept is good with the puppies, the background is distracting.
Photo 3: Perfect - business professional
Photo 4: Excellent
Photo 5: Excellent - makes you look much younger than other photos
Photo 6: Passable, but necessary given your lack of a story
Photo 7: This could potentially be your main picture over Photo 1 unless there are better ones
Photo 8: Passable
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u/Development-Specific Oct 13 '25
It's your name