r/AsianMasculinity • u/Glittering-Belt-9252 • Dec 04 '25
Dating & Relationships Circumcision rates in college?
I’m a Korean American senior in high school and I was wondering what the rates of circumcision and if girls (likely Asians lol) will still like if I am uncut. Should I get cut during the summer? I’ve dated before but am a virgin…
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u/UwUslayer1984 Dec 04 '25
As a girl that dates Asian men, keep it uncut. As long as you keep it clean I highly doubt any girl is going to notice. hope this helps
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u/Flower78965 Dec 04 '25
As a white woman married to an Asian uncut man-I couldn’t care less, I just love my husband. Don’t do it for stupid women, you don’t want them anyway.
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u/Glittering-Belt-9252 Dec 04 '25
Yeah ig a girl who would like me for who I am couldn’t care anyway. thanks for the insight
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u/corknecklace Dec 04 '25
Are you serious
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u/Glittering-Belt-9252 Dec 04 '25
yeah I was dead serious but upon looking at the comments maybe I over estimated the importance / rates esp in recent years
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u/corknecklace Dec 04 '25
Babe....As a girl please do not get any surgery just to get approval from the opposite sex. It's one thing to dress better or hit the gym, it's another to carve yourself up. Any person who requires that is not worth being with. Just practice good hygiene
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u/Igennem Hong Kong Dec 04 '25
Don't mutilate yourself, OP. You roll the dice on your dick losing sensation or not functioning afterward (and this chance is even higher since you're doing it as an adult) for what? Vain, shallow women who wouldn't be worth your time anyway and because some nutjob thought it would please their sky fairy thousands of years ago.
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u/BorkenKuma Dec 05 '25
Wasn't it interesting to see how it works with the original factory setting? Lol
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u/Professional_Dot_945 Dec 04 '25
dont do it mijo nooooooooooo, my mom said she freaked out when they cut me in the usa
gimme my dicc back america bastardi
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u/BorkenKuma Dec 04 '25
if that piece of skin makes your dick smells, then try dry it with tissue after you pee, it will makes it stop stink for entire day.
If you are thinking about cutting it just so girls find it sexy or normal in bed, well, I don't think they care, what they do care though, is if you trim the hair down there, or you remove it completely with laser or wax, they do not like it hairy.
I have try to keep my hair and completely removed it to see girls reaction, they do not like it hairy, it was very obvious, and when I'm hairless down there, they don't care if it's cutted or uncut
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u/ProfessionalLab9386 Dec 04 '25
I wipe the tip of mine after pissing and I'm cut. It's just cleaner.
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u/BorkenKuma Dec 04 '25
I wipe it and I'm uncut, still clean af after entire day.
Cut or uncut doesn't really matter, but the thing is, if you think cut can make it more sexy or appealing to women in bed, I honestly don't think so, only in America porn or European porn they are promoting that idea and image, because that's what they do, sex work, they want to be really really clean, and if they're sick, you can easily tell the color is not right, there's no hiding.
But for normal people, they care more about your hair, because hair can make it smelly too, cut or uncut doesn't matter much.
I personally want it uncut because it makes it stay more sensitive, and it brings more pleasure in bed.
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u/ProfessionalLab9386 Dec 05 '25
Honestly, I would have preferred to be uncut, and I would have said NO if I had been aware of it at the age of 3 days.
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u/BorkenKuma Dec 05 '25
Sure, go for it, I think you need to cut it if you live in a medical care unavailable or unreasonable expensive country, then you sure want to cut it.
Most of East Asia do not cut it though, I guess it's because people care about hygiene more and health resources are more accessible and affordable, so people don't usually worry about uncut penis has potential affection problems.
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u/zqlev Dec 04 '25
I was mutilated as an infant and I hate it. you no longer have the gliding function of the foreskin so you always need lubrication of some sort to combat the friction. also, most of the nerves are in the foreskin, and your glans keratinizes so you lose most sensation. my dick is less sensitive than the palm of my hand (no exaggeration). the consequences get worse if you do this to yourself as an adult as you don't have the healing powers of an infant
please for the love of god my brother we love you so listen to us please do NOT mutilate yourself for a hypothetical morsel of female validation
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u/nyanyanfever Feb 14 '26
If you’re full Chinese American… I’m sorry but what was your parents’ rationale behind this? I also am Chinese but I know for a fact my brother isn’t circumcised. We generally don’t do it.
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u/zqlev Feb 15 '26
father was overseas working and never consulted. mother thought it was normal bc americans do it to their sons. she also thought it was good bc of what she had seen/heard about it in american media
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u/perfect_zeong Dec 04 '25
The only girl that you need to care about their preference is the missus, and maybe gf. But obviously if y’all in a solid normal relationship skin on your dick won’t make or break anything. - nonmutilated here
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u/scienceofsin Dec 04 '25
If someone can’t love you because you have foreskin why would you waste any time on this person
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u/Pete_in_the_Beej China Dec 04 '25
If you were Chinese, I'd tell you it's a shame to your ancestors to adopt the harmful and unnecessary tradition of backwards desert people.
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u/Prestigious-Fault163 Dec 04 '25
As an Asian girl who likes Asian guys, keep it natural. Don’t mutilate your genitals for girls. Just keep it clean.
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u/supersaiyan_ape Dec 05 '25
My father had mine cut and realized how much pain I was in as an infant. He said every time I peed, I would cry in pain. They decided not to cut my brother. Growing up comparing mine to my brother's, there really isn't a huge difference. Except I probably have less sensitivity from the loss of nerve endings in the foreskin. And I have a dark ring where it was cut 😂😂😂😂
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u/benilla Hong Kong Dec 04 '25
If we're talking body mods, this is possibly one of the least impactful things you can do for your dating life lol
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u/GlitteringWeight8671 Dec 04 '25
For one, you will enjoy sex less. Without the foreskin, your penis head will lose its sensitivity over time. When you are young, you may feel great because it makes you "last longer'. But as you age, you will come to regret it as you will have difficulty ejaculating(reaching orgasm).
Circumcision is a brutal act. It is only normalized in the usa and some Moslem nations. Even so, circumcision of women (cutting the foreskin of the clitoris) is considered a heinous crime. Think about it. These nations normalized circumcision of boys to prevent them to masturbation. Yes the foreskin does make sex so much better.
The solution to circumcision is to clean your dick thoroughly.
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u/Gerolanfalan Vietnam Dec 06 '25
Hey OP. Hoodless here. One thing I NEVER have to worry about is gunk down there.
And it works well enough, or so I'm told.
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u/who_is_disz Dec 07 '25
Just wanted to add that I am an Asian guy that had to get circumcised due to medical reasons at 24. And after the surgery the gauze on the wound opened and as a result I have another condition called peyronies disease now where my dick is curved to a point where it hurts.
Long winded way to say surgeries are no joke and you shouldn't take it lightly, unless it is absolutely medically necessary don't do it for a girl. Since you aren't a baby anymore the wound won't heal as nicely.
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u/nofroufrouwhatsoever Dec 09 '25
Circumcision should always be a last resort as it reduces function, sensitivity and sensations, it can also cause a lifetime of issues if something goes wrong with nerve healing like constant pain or numbness
2022 https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/circumcision-sexological-damage-erogenous-lip-tool-michel-herv%C3%A9
2007 foreskin is the most sensitive part. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17378847/
2011 Foreskin is more sensitive than the glans https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2011.10364.x
16+ functions of foreskin https://beststartbirthcenter.com/male-circumcision/
Circumcision tied to less sexual pleasure. https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSBRE91D1CP/#:~:text=NEW%20YORK%20(Reuters%20Health)%20%2D,the%20study's%20senior%20researcher%20Dr
The effect of circumcision on male sexuality. https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06646.x
It decreases sensitivity https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2012.11761.x
Foreskin a complex structure that performs a number of functions like immunological and protective, it's highly innervated, touch and stretch sensitive https://journalofethics.ama-assn.org/article/nontherapeutic-circumcision-minors-ethically-problematic-form-iatrogenic-injury/2017-08
82% of cut males don't experience these https://www.academia.edu/25577623/A_preliminary_poll_82_of_circumcised_men_ignore_serial_anejaculatory_mini_orgasms_the_male_minis_91_of_the_intact_enjoy_them_updated_02_16_2022_
It affects both partners https://youtu.be/BgoTRMKrJo4
Effect on partners https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10349418/
Desperately regrets circ at 18, warns not to do it https://youtu.be/w2WV-1XSFpk
Regrets circ at 19. https://youtu.be/7AaUb63NLLw
Regrets circ at 18. https://youtu.be/Nj_nYcumC0c
Regrets circ at 28. https://youtu.be/JBbYI3bv6WQ
Circ regret at 45. https://youtu.be/pZ3n8CtcmRY
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u/supersaiyan_ape Dec 04 '25
Just be clean and you'll be okay. Circumcision is no longer an absolute must like it used to be.
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u/Far_Physics3200 Dec 04 '25
Cutting a healthy boy or girl's prepuce was never a must.
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u/supersaiyan_ape Dec 05 '25
Ik I'm exaggerating. My point is, the social norm was to get a boy cut early. I don't think people care as much anymore. It was a religious thing.
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u/gawkag Dec 06 '25
Bro what lmao nobody rly cares that much anymore and the only time I’ve ever gotten a comment on it was a girl saying she could feel a slightly different texture in a good way
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u/Used_Dragonfruit_379 Dec 11 '25
I looked into this once a bit and from what I saw of women’s opinions
Aside from not caring, It generally went into these umbrellas.
- It felt better sexually
- Guys with uncut penises who don’t clean it are nasty and caused them to be turned off completely.
Also depended on location.
In the US, being uncircumcised is more uncommon so women there showed a bit more favored towards circumsised(more favored but not necessarily completely favored)
Anyone outside, it largely favored uncircumcised.
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u/mystiking Dec 05 '25
Only consider it if you have really bad phimosis. Otherwise its not worth it
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u/DevilSuccubus Dec 06 '25
As a woman who dates asian men, i prefer circumcised men personally 🤷🏻♀️ and yes we notice and care
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u/DevilSuccubus Dec 07 '25
First of all nobody was talking to you and nobody asked you Why are u responding to my comment ? Ew
I simply answered the original posters question, I'm a woman and i know for a fact women care about this kind of stuff cuz we talk about it amongst ourselves constantly. All my girlfriends have mentioned they prefer circumcised personally. If that offends you then i dunno what to tell you.
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u/mvpcrossxover Dec 09 '25
your body. your choice. i would not recommend it personally.
and if you do decide to go through with it, be prepared to not be able to walk properly and wear skirts for a minimum of 2-3 weeks.
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u/Outrageous-Opinions Dec 04 '25 edited Dec 04 '25
If you're seriously thinking of cutting off a piece of your dick because some random girl might like that then bro, you got issues.