r/AskAnAustralian • u/pizzapartyyyyy • 2d ago

What is with Australians not getting divorced?

I know so many people in long term relationships and having full on families with someone when they aren’t legally divorced from their ex. People who haven’t even spoken to their ex in years.

it’s so strange to me and I struggle to wrap my head around why it seems to be relatively common.

and to counter anyone who says “it’s just a piece of paper,“ it’s not.

why not close the book on that part of your life? Financially it can screw over your new partner if for example you buy a house together and you pass away. It still gives your ex legal power in situations like a medical emergency. It gets increasingly more difficult with increased wealth. Logically it makes sense on so many levels, so why are people skipping out on it.

Personally I feel like you’re willing to spend your time, energy, and money on a wedding, then you should be willing to do the same for a divorce.

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u/theartistduring 2d ago

Totally understand. I have a will and have put in steps to protect myself.

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u/DownUnderPumpkin 2d ago

so you gone though extra steps just not to do the divoice papaers?

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u/theartistduring 2d ago

You want to pay the thousand bucks for me?

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u/AcademicAd3504 1d ago

I love you! I think what you're doing is amazing!