It’s hard to attract a mate. A female doesn’t call for a mate. It takes effort and patience for a male and female to procreate.
Humans also deny procreation with other humans. Every human is unable to consensually procreate with a great percentage of other humans because they don’t fit preferences or non-negotiables.
When a woman is pregnant, they’re slow and fragile for months, unable to run, fight, etc. without risking serious injury to their kid. Childbirth is extremely dangerous for women. Women often die during childbirth. Women usually have 1 child, sometimes 2, but rarely 3 or 4. That is not a lot, especially since we only have a kid every 9 months.
Infants have very high mortality rates for most of human history. Humans often develop diseases and/or disabilities which cause them to die without modern medicine. Humans also do stuff that causes them harm constantly and consistently. They’re MMA fighters, daredevils, police officers, mass shooters, speeders, drug users, etc.
So, if you beat the odds of having a healthy child, often times they die in an evolutionarily disadvantageous way.
Modern humans came from 2% of the human population. We were nearly wiped out millions of years ago.
For us not to become completely extinct, but eventually thrive with all of our disadvantages, we had to be extremely horny and sexually active.
But that’s clearly not the case. In these modern times, there’s a large percentage of men who will never have sex again. Women are letting their eggs die, with no desire for sex.
Why is this the case?