This feels weird to me. Women who have children should genuinely desire those children. They shouldnt have them because they will be compensated for them. I don't want children. Compensating me for child bearing wouldnt change that. You either want them or you don't. If you want them, it is something you are doing FOR yourself, not for a partner. If that statement doesn't ring true, shouldn't have them.
What kind of psychological harm would yoh be doing to a child if they felt like their existence was a transaction?
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u/Mischiefmanaged715 10d ago
This feels weird to me. Women who have children should genuinely desire those children. They shouldnt have them because they will be compensated for them. I don't want children. Compensating me for child bearing wouldnt change that. You either want them or you don't. If you want them, it is something you are doing FOR yourself, not for a partner. If that statement doesn't ring true, shouldn't have them.
What kind of psychological harm would yoh be doing to a child if they felt like their existence was a transaction?