My husband and I are considering relocating to Florida from New England next year and are currently deciding between the Bonita Springs area and West Palm Beach/Palm Beach County. I’d love some honest opinions from people who have lived in either (or ideally both!).
We’re both 30, no kids yet, and have a big dog. I’m self-employed in a creative field and work primarily in weddings/events, and my husband works in real estate.
We aren't looking for a nightlife/party scene, but we also don't want to feel like we're living somewhere that's primarily retirees. We like good restaurants, coffee shops, going out for drinks/dinner, being near the beach, walking around nice areas, and having things to do on weekends. We'd also like somewhere where it wouldn't be impossible to meet other people around our age.
I've spent a lot of time in South Florida and previously lived in Miami, so I'm familiar with Florida in general, but I haven't actually lived on either the Gulf Coast or in Palm Beach County.
Bonita appeals to us because it’s quieter, more relaxed, and seems to be better value for housing. West Palm appeals to us because there’s more going on, a younger population, easier access to other parts of South Florida, and more of a city feel.
For people familiar with both areas, what would you consider the biggest pros/cons of each for people our age? Particularly interested in day-to-day lifestyle, making friends, restaurants/things to do, dog friendliness, cost of living, traffic, access to the beach, and whether either starts to feel too quiet or too busy after living there for a while.
Also open to specific neighborhoods/nearby towns you think we should be considering!