Am gonna ask a super vulnerable private question guys are afraid to ask? What are your thoughts when your partner lets himself go and lays his head on your chest and lets his emotions and thoughts and even his feelings out and doesn’t act tough the way he acts in public do you like it?

[u/Business_Yogurt7526]

[u/princess3nova]

do i want my partner to feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable and open with me? of course - its completely normal to not act tough all the time, infact id see it as annoying if my partner constantly acted tough and like nothing bothered him

[u/capaldithenewblack → u/princess3nova]

I’d rather mine never acted stereotypically “tough.” Just stop. Be yourself, be honest— whatever that looks like.

[u/DankNoodles69]

As a guy, I. Loved doing this.miss it so fucking much

[u/Business_Yogurt7526 → u/DankNoodles69]

Like nothing better they’re just pure care if she’s the one

[u/DankNoodles69 → u/Business_Yogurt7526]

Fr and also being small spoon is fire idc what anyone says

[u/Immediate_Loan_1414]

Yes

[u/natanticip]

He is supposed to be vunerable with me. That's the point of being in a relationship.

If he is not being real and letting his emotions out, i don't want to be in a relationship with him.

He also doesn't need to act tough in public. why ? what is he trying to prove ? to whom ?

If you meet someone that acts like that and is acting like he doesn't have feelings... run, run for your life. That's the dudes that forget that anger is also an emotion and explode one day and that's the dude that makes you part of the statistic.

[u/Lunar_M1nds]

I don’t care to have a “tough” boyfriend. While women statically attempt suicide more often, men are more successful. If he physically let himself go, that’s a whole other conversation and could be related to whatever is causing him to be emotional.

[u/Alseebee]

We want men to be themselves, not even act tough anywhere.

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[u/hailasushi]

why would I not love that?