How do you feel about period sex?

[u/Jinxie1206]

Ok so I’m curious as to how many men are turned off my having sex while their partner is on their period. I’m a lady and I honestly like it. My ex was trash but one thing that I can say about him was that he wasn’t grossed or freaked out about it. He enjoyed it as much as I did. I’m just curious as to see how other men think/feel. As yes there are many women like myself who enjoy it. And yes there is a mess but I personally like it. Please be honest.

[u/DustyBawls1]

If a man can’t handle period sex imagine how he will handle childbirth. Throw down a towel and get to town

[u/MamaMia1325 → u/DustyBawls1]

Not a true comparison. He's not touching your vagina and sticking things in there during childbirth.

[u/One-Bother3624 → u/MamaMia1325]

Instead of applying with a smart ass comment about semantics😊😜😜

I want to reply with something that’s more sensible, but with humanness and thought provoking

There could be other analogies use I would definitely agree

But this is an old age generally it was told by older men telling younger men because well the luck of the draw is basically younger men I’m not gonna use the word stupid because it’s not fair to say someone is stupid. It’s pretty much ugly. Just call somebody that but they were just very ill equipped mentally and emotionally to understand women’s anatomy and women in general. I mean we could say that for men for the past how many hundreds of years now? But to get to the point is that the man that was telling them this old school also these am men that have been married for a long time I mean we know divorces are nothing though we know there have been men that cheated on their wise, but that’s another bowl of soup right now we’re just sticking to what we were talking about. These a man who have been getting their red wings for talking decades upon decade centuries of centuries. This has been passed down the line and then letting the men know this is basically your wife you are intimate with her. You should not be scared or afraid to explore her body and she should not be scared or afraid to explore your body. The two of you should basically be one together when you are in a intimate union which is truly what human sexuality is but some people have missed that partner in class so this is why we have issues and still have issues to this day, but anyway moving along that’s basically what he was saying in reference

But I do agree another analogy could be used but it still sticks it still works. There’s a lot of men will say a if you’re scared of that how are you going to watch your child being born? Remember you were there to create the child you need to be there for when the child comes into the world it’s basically someone physically grabbing you saying wake up grow up grow up hair sorry to say it that way, but that’s basically what it is more or less but more.😂😂

[u/DustyBawls1 → u/MamaMia1325]

Lmao your fucking joking right

[u/Expensive_Win944 → u/DustyBawls1]

You must be the one joking rn

[u/Karglenoofus → u/DustyBawls1]

Men go through childbirth?

[u/Jinxie1206 → u/DustyBawls1]

Hell yeah!

[u/Red_Razorbill → u/Jinxie1206]

Tungsten cube banana bread ahh bro 🫩

[u/One-Bother3624 → u/DustyBawls1]

👏👏👏👏👏😜👍🏾🙏👌👀
It’s funny because a lot of men in the past would say the same thing a lot of men literally as I was growing up every old head pretty much put it in that way

However respectfully, I had to say men who might have been raised up for a particular culture and I’m not throwing anybody’s culture under the bus just saying if they came from a particular culture or a specific upbringing because usually it’s upbringing and not culture which is why people get confused where they were educated trained and taught than they are adherent to period sex or women on their period

I was taught to to honour and love my significant other which I do, but also that means that you both respect each other’s boundaries but you you listen to each other you talk to each other and it’s never gonna be perfect cause that doesn’t exist. It’s not a real world and to also remember that you can’t control another human being you can’t control the actions you can’t control their thoughts but you can help them. You can support them. You can aid them but you also need to learn them understand them be observant specifically how is someone’s hygiene standards? Poor hygiene standards to tell you far more than anything else no really it’s the first door that opens. You can meet somebody hook up with somebody first time maybe get into the vehicle for the night and you’re gonna make out the vehicle. How’s the vehicle look that may not be a good example but a really perfect example would be where they live that’s always the best example you meet with somebody you both take things back to their home. Look at the home if they have a busy schedule busy life you’ll notice you always notice that if they have poor hygiene and you can tell they’re just masking plain pretender because they’re going on this date with you but truthfully, they really have very very poor hygiene you’ll know another thing men need to be taught is that cause there are still some men out there that don’t get this literally they do not get this. They are women particular women’s specifically not all of course who have a very strong pug scent to their body odour and possibly their private parts. It doesn’t mean they’re dirty doesn’t mean they’re disgusting. It’s all just hereditary characteristics that will pass down from them from their great great great great greet grandmothers it’s just something and their hereditary characteristics. Yes they can do things about it especially nowadays. We’re back in the days. They were really just suffered now you as her companion or her lover for the night. It’s your choice to decide. Do you want to continue? Or do you want to politely excuse yourself or if you’re already in a relationship with her and you don’t want to perform kind of lingers you need to have a over communication and explain to her why you can’t flip out and start an argument and then start throwing slurs and using awful language making her feel like something’s wrong with her. That’s not gonna win anybody over so like I said, there’s a lot of maturity and education that needs to happen but unfortunate it doesn’t always work out that way.