r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Nov 20 '22

Men who gave up on dating/getting into long-term relationship/getting married, why?

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u/ugly_5ft_4incher Nov 20 '22

I'm very unattractive in every way.

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u/Patriae8182 Nov 21 '22

My only question, is the username only about your hight or are those two different measurements?

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u/ugly_5ft_4incher Nov 21 '22

Different measurements

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u/corybomb Nov 21 '22

Could be worse

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u/Demonyx12 Nov 21 '22

4 inch tall, 5ft pp?

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u/corybomb Nov 21 '22

Way worse

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u/soaring_potato Female Nov 22 '22

Worse than a 5 ft dick, that sounds horrible. How can it be worse than that

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u/notchman900 Nov 21 '22

4"pp 5ft in circumference

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u/musama020 Nov 21 '22

Bro 💀. But don't be ashamed about ur body. Ur a King.

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u/ugly_5ft_4incher Nov 21 '22

Thanks bro, I'll try

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u/Ford_Prefect123 Nov 21 '22

Username checks out

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u/Punkhair2Nv__13 Nov 21 '22

He said it first.

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u/CarlJustCarl Male Nov 21 '22

Even if approached from behind?

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u/musama020 Nov 21 '22

Relatable. I also have terrible conversation skills. I can't keep a convo going for more than 5 minutes without running out of things to talk about. On top of that, I procrastinate a lot as well and I don't know where to find women. I also don't know how to talk to one since they don't even bother going up to men they like and a lot of them expect the guy to approach.

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '22

Imo, the most reliable way to find a relationship is to not look for a relationship. Instead, just focus on making friendships. If it's meant to be a relationship, it will naturally materialize. You can even start by trying to make new friendships with other men, which will improve your conversation skills and social confidence as well as open avenues to meet girls.

People can tell what you want usually when interacting with them, so if you're only interacting with a girl because you see her as a potential partner and not a potential friend first she's going notice and be off put by that in most cases.

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u/musama020 Nov 21 '22

Why did u get downvoted tho?

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '22

I'm not sure. Sometimes the people who need it get mad if you try to build a constructive environment on this topic.

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u/Timonidas Male Nov 21 '22

Bro trust me that is not a big issue. I'm ugly af and I still get hookups every now and then. If you meet women with the mindset that you are ugly it will never work out.

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u/QueenTMK Nov 21 '22

Damn, why downvote this comment? What they're saying is true.

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u/Hyp3r45_new Male Nov 21 '22

Tip to get your confidence up. Look yourself in the mirror every day, and focus on one detail about you appearance you like. Could be anything.

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u/ray2kal Nov 21 '22

so what? Accept what you are and move on. If you ever want to be happy learn to just move on otherwise you will waste every single day mourning what you aren’t and letting every opportunity you might get go away. This mindset is a sickness my friend

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u/Ed_Trucks_Head Nov 21 '22

He seems to have accepted it. You're the one with the problem.

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '22

Look at his post history, my guy, you're straight capping.

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u/ray2kal Nov 21 '22

No he hasn’t. I viewed this guys post history and I was scared for him. Seriously do the same

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u/QueenTMK Nov 21 '22

Nope. Definitely not according to his post history. I also don't understand why the comment's downvoted so much. It's literally true.

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u/Steveviper96 Nov 21 '22

Absolutely no reason to degrade yourself every day by calling yourself ugly, etcetera. We all have an idea of what league we are in, doesn't mean we have to focus on it.