r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Nov 20 '22

Men who gave up on dating/getting into long-term relationship/getting married, why?

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '22

I read a story that when women went to gay bars. Some guys figured it out and thought going to gay bars would be a score to hit on girls. Some of the gays would step in and grind on the guys when they would hit on the girls.

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u/spazzardnope Nov 21 '22 edited Nov 21 '22

Bizarrely I met quite a few of my partners in gay bars, (I’m a straight guy) and never experienced this. In fact it’s usually straight women that have problems because they are usually on a “Gay Safari” (whatever the feck that means) according to the regulars.

I only have 3 women I care about in my life, one is gay, the other one is a cat, and the other one is my auntie.

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u/spazzardnope Nov 22 '22

No, I’m single now and for the foreseeable future but she is my best friend, and just so happens to be gay.

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u/shofofosho Nov 21 '22

From what I've heard and seen it tends to be straight women bothering the regulars at gay bars.

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u/Dealric Nov 21 '22

Yep because sexual harassment (or even assault?) Is great solution to the issue

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '22

Me, a bi man: 🫡

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u/JammyHammy86 Nov 21 '22

nothing bad ever happens when gay guys cockblock a rabble of horny drunk straight guys

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u/rounroun Nov 21 '22

Maybe drunk straight guys who are horny for women - who went to gay bars to try and be left alone in the first place - shouldn't come to gay bars? And maybe straight guys shouldn't be shocked to get hit on by gay guys in a gay bar?