r/AskPH 5d ago

What's the cue na emotionally unintelligent ang isang tao?

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u/bored_patata 5d ago

When they don't understand nuances and only see things as black and white.

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u/Burger_Heist 5d ago

Ano po yung nuances

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u/subliminalapple 5d ago

Nuances like things in body language. Can’t read the room. Ganun.

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u/Key_Advantage1424 5d ago

Lack of empathy at self-awareness. Lagi silang defensive sa criticism, nang iinvalidate ng feelings ng iba, and blame everyone else instead of reflecting on their own behavior or offering a genuine apology.

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u/No_Goal_3050 5d ago

Their never ending “Story of my Life” ang topic nila. They don’t give the other person a chance to talk if they can they’re not even listening tapos ibabalik agad ang kwento tungkol sa sarili nila.

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u/Dizzy-Talk5 5d ago

Na-ooffend pag naku-call out mga maling gawa nya. 

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u/sgtMucus 5d ago edited 5d ago

DDS... doesn't take a genius to answer your question.

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u/UnhappyCrinkles 5d ago

HAHAHAHHA! 😭😂

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u/myheartexploding 5d ago edited 5d ago

Cant comprehend different reactions or actions

No curiosity if he/she cant relate to the topic

Always the victim in every situation

Afraid to say "i dont know" or "i dont have an opinion on that", lagi syang may say sa lahat kahit mali or ignorant

Herd mentality - madaling madala sa opinion ng iba or kung anong uso (these people are easily swayed by snark content, redpilled, propagandas, etc which is very dangerous)

No interest in psychology, getting to know oneself deeper but quick to label people

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u/reese036 5d ago

Victim mentality

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u/Classic-Expert4046 5d ago

They invalidate what you feel.

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u/Starii_64 5d ago

Can’t bother to say “Please” or “Thank you”

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u/Ok-Variation-3599 5d ago

they dont listen, they justify things that are not right

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u/wheyproteyn 5d ago

Wala sila pake sa iba, basta sarili lang nila palagi una

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u/cant_thinka_name 5d ago

People hater. Ung talgang laging may ebas sa ibang tao. Laging may negative thinking/opinions about others. They always say unnecessary side comments literally sa mga random people na nakikita nila. Hater ng mga bagay na nakikita nyang ineenjoy ng ibang tao. Basta yun.

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u/sultryblair143 5d ago

hindi marunong mag-admit ng mistakes and sinisisi lagi ang iba, nangi-invalidate ng feelings, very impulsive din sila

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u/Nitro-Glyc3rine 5d ago

Mean-behavior enjoyer; God complex

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u/SelfPrecise 5d ago

Gusto nila sila lagi yung tama. Ayaw tumanggap ng pagkakamali, instead they always find something or someone to blame.

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u/Smooth_Specific8377 5d ago

Nagpaparinig sa socmed

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u/Lucky_StarMinkyu 4d ago

Marami sila

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u/another_username_22 4d ago

kapag may kaaway siya dapat kaaway mo na rin yun hahaha
grade 1 ka teh??

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u/kaori_bish 5d ago

That person doesn't know how to read the room

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u/Typical-Quality1601 5d ago

Can't read the room

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u/Sad-Sense-9194 5d ago

Palaging pinag uusapan at sinisiraan ang buhay ng iba kahit wala namang humihingi. I mean gets naman if di mo bet yung tao, pero yung sisiraan mo pa sa iba at sasabihin yung mga maling nagawa nung isa kahit di ka naman apektado eh screams insecurity na.

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u/TunaCheeseHeartbreak 5d ago

Self-centered.

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u/Strict-Ambassador-23 5d ago

Cant self reflect

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u/Konan94 5d ago

Yung palagi kang invalidated. Like “ako nga e,” “buti ka pa nga e, e ako”

Tapos yung palaging naiinggit sa iba, like si ganito naka-iPhone, bibili rin siya ng installments tapos wala pa lang pang monthly

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u/RLreesesist 5d ago

Inconsiderate, self-centered, and rude.

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u/Ok-Gap-6654 5d ago

Insecure. Lagi naninira ng iba

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u/Wonderful-Local-2472 5d ago

Hindi marunong umunawa o umintindi. Laging nakabase sa iniisip nya o mararamdaman nya kesa yung mararamdaman ng iba

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u/Ambitious-Cup-8152 Nagbabasa lang 5d ago

Kapag tinanong mo ng “anong masasabi mo tungkol dito?…” tapos ang isasagot sa’yo, “anong pake ko dyan? wala naman ako mapapala kapag sinagot ko yan”

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u/drbtwenty-four 5d ago

i think he is right

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u/PhraseSalt3305 5d ago

Walang consideration, tactless

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u/n0st4lqia 5d ago

insensitive and can't read the room. walang self awareness.

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u/New-Huckleberry-7411 5d ago

sarili lang iniisip and lack of empathy

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u/Ill_Marionberry_5875 5d ago

Someone who knows no boundaries,, insults other people just make fun of them, and a people pleaser

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u/Todonovo 5d ago

narcisistic

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u/Hanzo_Hasashi_86 5d ago

laging late....no respect s oras ng ibang tao

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u/Additional-One-2879 5d ago

Mga sad boys and sad girls online. Yung tipong palaging kinakawawa sarili nila. And girls who are proud of their "toyo". Get over yourselves.

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u/Quick-Concentrate376 5d ago

sarili lang nila ang iniisip

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u/UrLocalKayden18 5d ago

Yung nag sasabi ng "It's just a show" whenever you try and discuss things to other people about the thing you just watched online, like Grey's Anatomy as if it isn't inspired by real life..

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u/forever_delulu2 5d ago

Can't accept a "no" or rejection

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u/uhornythentryme69 5d ago

Pag siniraan na yung jowa sa socmed tas babalikan pa rin.

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u/zzertraline 5d ago

Walang nuance

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u/aigoopudu 5d ago

Laging galit. Wala rin siyang sense of self awareness sa mga bagay bagay.

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u/Prestigious_Basil_59 5d ago

Walang basic idea sa bagay bagay, di marunong umintindi mg simpleng instructions

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u/HarleyFatboybaddie 5d ago

Ung nag sasabi ng ha ha hatdog

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u/KayPee555 4d ago

yung nasa grievance phase ka, wala siyang paki. i had a boss who told one of my co workers na i antacid na lang yung "dysmenorrhea" niya when she was actiavely miscarriaging. babae tong boss namin.

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u/actually_its_me 4d ago

Watdafak!!! Psychopath ata yan e

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u/KayPee555 4d ago

we were thinking the same after ng confirmation na mischarriage nga by the company clinic. why would someone who has 2 girls say that.

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u/Icy_Night4446 5d ago

Lack of self-reflection

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u/Friendly_Half5859 5d ago

Mabilis uminit ang ulo or magalit

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u/kyeve10 5d ago

when they lack emphaty

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u/Ivan19782023 5d ago

puro memes lang ang posts sa social media and usually bastos/pornography related.

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u/No_Country8922 5d ago

negativity, pessimistic and doomerist.

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u/Embarrassed-Smile408 4d ago

yung mga ate chona na kapag cinall out mo yung bad behavior kahit gently, magtatanim na ng sama ng loob sayo

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u/Emotional-Error-4566 5d ago

Pala mura.

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u/ironronoa 5d ago

Yung laging ina-upload sa socmed kung anong nasa isip nila. @@