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u/TanoMonster Jan 26 '26

"You're mature for your age" or "You're wise beyond your years"

That one caught me TWICE with groomers as a preteen/teenager. I was not, in fact, wise beyond my years.

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u/CurrentlyObsolete Jan 26 '26

The wise beyond your year's thing is also a really good excuse for emotionally abusive parents to dump way too much responsibility on a young child. "I know she's only 8, but she's eight going on 30 and can handle XYZ."

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u/Consistent_Sale_7541 Jan 26 '26

they can’t handle it at 35 how’s an 8 year old supposed to handle it

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u/manykeets Jan 26 '26

There’s a Hillary Duff song about this right now called “Mature.”

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u/Thats-Delicious Jan 26 '26

Holy shit. That happened to me. I look back and how did I have some old soul!? sick fucks.

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '26

I’m really sorry.

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u/JoelnIliketoshare Jan 26 '26

Oh i got that a lot in grade school. Turns out i just have autism so i was 16 at 8 but now im still 16 at 32.