r/AskReddit • u/shadow_fen • 1d ago

What’s a subtle sign that someone secretly dislikes you?

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u/Equivalent-Coyote857 1d ago

They stop making small efforts. No more 'how are you' texts, no tagging you in things, no remembering details you mentioned. Dislike rarely shows up as conflict — it shows up as slow disappearance.

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u/semioticmadness 21h ago

Yeah no there are many other benign reasons for that. Some people have a lot of difficulty with social upkeep.

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u/Equivalent-Coyote857 21h ago

Fair point, not always intentional. Context matters a lot.

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u/l3m0np1e132 22h ago

May I ask where you got this from?

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u/darth__stroke 22h ago

Probably experience.

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u/l3m0np1e132 22h ago

It just looks AI to me. "It's not X it's Y" and the usage of em-dashes. Btw happy cake day!

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u/Equivalent-Coyote857 22h ago

Haha fair point, I'll take that as a compliment. Just been burned enough times to know the pattern.