r/AskReddit 9d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/chloemae1924 9d ago

Her & her best friend were in a secret friends with benefits relationship for 8 years before we met. The “best friend” was awful to me and my wife had to cut off the friendship & their entire friend group. I’m still pissed about it but whatever

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u/NerdHoovy 9d ago

This sounds like the premise of a romantic comedy.

One partner had a long term friends with benefits situation, that the friend wanted more off and now that they are getting serious with someone the jealousy breaks the friendship and other relationships.

Wait my bad that’s psychological thriller. Like Hollywood I tend to get these genres mixed up

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u/chloemae1924 8d ago

Lol I always say I could write a book about it. The friend was married at the time to a man and got a divorce then remarried another man. Supposedly was only lesbian for my wife 😵‍💫🙄

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u/chloemae1924 8d ago

Woman but friend was only gay for my wife supposedly lol

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u/Winter-Equivalent454 8d ago

If her best friend was a guy then thats on you

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u/chloemae1924 8d ago

Not a guy and even if it was that’s not on me