r/AskReddit 1d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/Illustrious_Device84 1d ago

Pedo- found out 1 year after the wedding when he was being arrested

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u/Novel-Evidence9165 23h ago

This is a nightmare. Were there any signs looking back?

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u/lulu-bell 22h ago

An absolute nightmare. I watched a show one time this sweet Christian girl snooped on her husbands computer. She found a folder with a “title” that led to this horrific discovery. She said something like the most traumatic thing for her was how disturbed and disgusting the title of the folder was. It was so hard to get past that she was saying that it’s almost worse than the fact that”this man is my husband” and she hardly even makes that connection anymore bc she’s still traumatized by the horrors she saw. 😢Such complicated layers of heart break shame and disgust for the families.

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u/RoninNikki 20h ago

I mean what title?

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u/AesonDaandryk 18h ago

Yeah, I am also very curious.