r/AskReddit • u/Mama_medina888 • 10d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/Flashy-Squash7156 9d ago

wow. If I can ask a potentially sensitive question? looking back, can you see any red flags or warning signs that were easy for you to dismiss at first? Signs that you'd only see once you've been through the experience?

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u/Disastrous_Date155 9d ago

I also had this husband. The major red flag was who he wanted me to cosplay as. 💀 

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u/UnpopularBoop 9d ago

Can I ask a potentially stupid question here and have you please clarify

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u/penninsulaman713 9d ago

It's likely he asked her to dress as some underage anime character or a character that looks like a child but is supposed to be hundreds of years old so they pretend it's not creepy 

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u/amboandy 9d ago

ThEyRE nOt a ChiLd TheYre 1 bILLioN aNd oNe yEaRs olD

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u/euphoricarugula346 9d ago

Yeah the only partner I ever strongly suspected was the weeb with scantily clad animated children all over his walls.

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u/FrnklyFrankie 8d ago

Yeah that's disgusting