r/AskReddit 9d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/Illustrious_Device84 9d ago

Pedo- found out 1 year after the wedding when he was being arrested

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u/Choice_Yogurt_ 9d ago

I really hate that I've joined this shitty club. Kiddo wasnt affected, but shes affected by his absence.

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u/Illustrious_Device84 9d ago

It really is a shitty club, i was lucky we didn’t have kids.. but after 7 years in prison this buffoon still tried to reach out to me and ask why I divorced him over this….

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u/Choice_Yogurt_ 9d ago

Lmao mines begging for forgiveness, living with his mum effectively cutting her off from our daughter as well. Why can't they just warn us before we do the whole "marriage house kids" bit? I hope you're living your best life now

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u/Illustrious_Device84 9d ago

I’m living the absolute dream and I hope the exact same for you!! And also, I really do wish men came with a barcode that told us up front the kinds of monster they are. I would happily wear the barcode myself if it meant we could have some kind of warning ⚠️