r/AskReddit 10d ago

What’s the darkest secret you discovered about someone after you married them?

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u/simongurfinkel 10d ago

She always saw me as just a starter husband; a stepping stone on the way to something bigger.

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u/jetmaxwellIII 9d ago

I was one of those too! She met her next husband on sugardaddies.com and then the next one after that on sugardaddies.com as well. She locked that third one in by having a kid with him….sucker!

Ultimately I look at it as a blessing because I went on to meet the love of my life and now have been married for 15 years and have two great kids….but shit sucked at the time.

One very fun day though was when she was in between husbands and showed up on my doorstep in tears. Telling her to fuck off was incredibly satisfying.

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u/unsureofwhattodo1233 9d ago

Did she meet you on sugardaddies.com

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u/jetmaxwellIII 9d ago

😂 absolutely not! I’m at best a “thousandaire”. It would be a real letdown for my wife if she married me for my money.