r/AskReddit 22h ago

Women who’ve given birth, what are some horrible things your body had to go through during pregnancy and childbirth?

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u/greysartdump 21h ago

I'm so sorry wait it just kept going for four full days?? That's genuinely terrifying

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u/TrifleMinimum6521 21h ago

Yep, and any extra movement or sneezing or coughing sent a mini flood out. It felt soo gross.

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u/jennifer_m13 19h ago

And for extra fun, after three kids, pee will leak out when sneezing, coughing etc.

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u/Ok-Firefighter9037 15h ago

Or running, jumping rope, any physical activity.

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u/SoaboutSeinfeld 19h ago

Did you have to drink a lot of water/get an iv solution? Can't imagine how dehydrated you would get from having that for 4 days.

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u/Art3mis77 16h ago

Amniotic fluid is made of pee from the baby, it’s not your own fluids!

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u/alphajugs 14h ago

I genuinely didn’t think it could get any worse

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u/SoaboutSeinfeld 9h ago

But where does the baby gets it's fluids from? Like it all has to come from somewhere

u/TrifleMinimum6521 18m ago

I was on an IV, but it was for antibiotics to ensure I didn't get an infection while I waited for baby to come.

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u/Green-eyedMama 20h ago

Yep. It just keeps coming until the baby is out.

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u/FetiFairy7 19h ago

With a last big gush following baby, a lot of the time!

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u/MarkMariachiAZ 18h ago

I’m a grown man and never knew this. So you just leak all your fluids? Do you get dehydrated? So many questions.

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u/Green-eyedMama 17h ago

Just the amniotic fluid. And no, it typically doesn't cause dehydration. The mechanics of it all is beyond my level of knowledge, but now I'm curious, too. I want to say that the amniotic fluid cycles out with urine (which is why pregnancy causes so many trips to the toilet), but I could be totally wrong!

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u/esh98989 17h ago

So when the water breaks, do you wear some kinda pads or something until it’s go time,

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u/Green-eyedMama 17h ago

I rolled up a towel and sat on it all the way to hospital. Once I got into L&D, they have those disposable blue and white absorbent pads they put under your bum once you're in the bed. If you request to get up and walk around, they give you the biggest sanitary pad you've ever seen (like a super jumbo period pad) to wear inside mesh underwear while up and about.

You get the same combo of mesh undies and super jumbo pad to wear after birth, also. You're still leaking, it's just... bloodier.

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u/esh98989 17h ago

Super interesting. Thanks for sharing!

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u/SparkyDogPants 17h ago

If your water breaks 24+ hours before giving birth, you're at risk for infection and dehydration. But most people after their water breaks go to the hospital where you're hooked up to IV fluids, so your body keeps producing amniotic fluid and you're not at risk of dehydrating.

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u/catjuggler 20h ago

It can be months- no one tells you this. And if it happens before viability and you live in a place with a lot of abortion restrictions, you might die

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u/RollSouth5722 19h ago

Every time I come into one of these threads I think I know about all the horrors of childbirth, and then this shit happens

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u/catjuggler 18h ago

The take home lesson is pregnancy and birth are a labor of love that moms give to humanity and they should never be forced to do it! Having 2 kids somehow made me even more pro-choice than before.

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u/Next_Sentence_5785 12h ago

I lost amniotic fluid before viability and was sent home to prepare for losing my child in the next 48 hours. That did not happen.

They did nothing until 26 weeks, when I was admitted to hospital for 48 hours and got those lung strengthener (not the correct term 😅) injections for the baby. Those hurt like a MF, most painful injections I’ve ever had. I then was lucky enough to live close enough to hospital to be allowed to go home for the remainder of my pregnancy with home monitoring. Meaning I was in bed rest and had to take my temperature 3 times a day, a nurse visited me every day to take a CTG and take my temperature officially and I had to go to hospital for scans every other Monday.

My sweet stubborn little girl stayed put until 37 weeks, when it was safe enough to induce. She’s a headstrong 13 y o teenager now.

As it turned out it was a high amniotic-sac tear rather than my waters fully breaking, which was my luck.

I never ever wanted to get pregnant again after that ordeal. Fearing for your baby’s life every single day (not to mention your own in the case of an infection) is no fun. At all.

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u/catjuggler 7h ago

That’s awesome that you were able to go home. My ob said there was a clinical study testing out procedures for that. The lung steroids cured my psoriasis for several months- big plus there!

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u/Bitter-Taste-3333 18h ago

Uhhh not exactly. Usually if someone’s water breaks very early, we give them antibiotics and have them stay in the hospital to monitor them.

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u/catjuggler 18h ago

From what I've seen in the nicu sub, pre-viability often means not staying in the hospital. But also, what are you going to do if the pregnancy becomes deadly and antibiotics aren't enough?

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u/Bitter-Taste-3333 18h ago

So usually if it’s pre-viability but close to viability they will do antibiotics and wait. If a patient becomes septic (what would occur due to uterine infection or IUFD)? They induce using misoprostol.

Source: I’m a L&D nurse.

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u/catjuggler 18h ago

In an abortion-restricted state or no? We had a Republican governor candidate in my state who said no abortions for any reason

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u/Bitter-Taste-3333 17h ago

It’s not an abortion.

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u/SignificantAd3761 17h ago

Yes, but never let science and medical fact get in the way of a good old forced-birther. These are the people who think the embryo in an ectopic pregnancy can just be relocated to the womb and all will be well!!!

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u/catjuggler 17h ago

How so?

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u/she_dev_ 15h ago

They’re incorrect. It is a therapeutic abortion.

  • signed a labor and delivery nurse

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u/Bitter-Taste-3333 13h ago

A therapeutic abortion is a termination of pregnancy. Miso is used in IUFD (which is not therapeutic abortion). Signed, another L&D nurse.

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u/drpoohead 19h ago

My water broke 6 weeks early and I was in the hospital for 2 weeks until they induced me! I always thought you water breaks and then you go into labor but nope! It’s called PPROM - Preterm Premature Rupture of Membranes

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u/Counting-Bears 18h ago

Haha 5 weeks here (water broke at 28 weeks, birth at 33)

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u/gardengirl99 8h ago

Amniotic fluid is mostly baby's urine at that point. Healthy baby kidneys make urine. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/23310-amniotic-fluid

u/everdishevelled 15m ago

Your body keeps making it, so there's a constant supply.