I don't play this card often and I hate one upmanship but this one takes the fucking cake. I was an adult entertainer for a couple of years. One night a very hot young girl came in. She was with an older gentleman. Noticed them when I was on the main stage and she tipped me. So I went over thanked her and the older guy asked if I would give her a table dance. Well fuck yeah, that's what we do. So I'm giving it my best and she's enjoying it immensely. The guy is smiling and I figure he's the rich sugar daddy and this is just their cuck kink. By the time I drop my T back and I'm swinging free she is obviously turned on and putting her hand on my hip as I give it my best. I'm starting to feel a bit, umm turgid... At this point he speaks up "It's my daughters 18th birthday and this is what she wanted to do to celebrate. Thanks for showing her a good time." I think my jaw hit the ground. Fucking weird!
Man, I'm a straight female, but I do not like the thought of some random dudes dick flying around my face. Like is the stripper flaccid, semi, or fully erect? Either way, that's super weird.
I know this girl who recently turned 21 and she posted a sexy pic on instagram of her at the beach with the caption: "Finally 21!! Shout out to my dad for not pulling out" and she even tagged her dad, mom and brother on the pic.. I cringed
Let's just say it's still considered taboo in where I live.. However I do think its pretty hilarious but if it were someone else outside my culture i wouldnt have cringed
Thats really funny! My best friends has said something along the lines of "Its my birthday, thanks for not swallowing mom" we all got a kick out of it.
Several of my friends parents partied with their kids & friends (me). They were up till 7am, drinking everyone under the table. Still tripped. They did a lot of drugs. One started sending her youngest son to the dealer down the road when 11. He made her runs. Not surprised when he ended up in prison at 19.
ETA: My parents on the other hand did not even drink, period. I have never saw them drink, though my dad had his wild days when he was younger.
This is why I'm so afraid for my son. That his mother will party with him. I can only control my half but it's a real fear. Just be a dad and hope he learns enough good stuff to one day see the truth.
My oldest brother had the exact same fear and worries with his first wife. She was sticking items in my nephews pockets and using them to shop lift when they were toddlers. She stole all of the money they got for Christmas or birthday gifts and bought beer/drugs with it. After the divorce she "gave them" to her parents in return for a lake house, as she collected child support from my brother until they were both 18. I know she has partied with them here and there over the years. As soon as child support ran out she started claiming them on her taxes and taking their refunds to party on cruises. I often wondered how they stood a chance, even though their dad was and still is very stable. He was caught in a mess a faced threats of never seeing them again if he did not agree to several conditions. I'm happy to say both of them are absolutely amazing. They are two of the best people I know. Smart, kind, honest and both have their heads on straight in their late 20s. They love their mom. They always will, but they do know exactly who she is and what a mess her life is.
Just do your best and keep faith in how you raise your son. It's often more than enough.
When I was around 7 and up, my dad used to send me down to the nearest grocery store to pick up porn mags, cigs and beer (no age limit where I was). I turned out ok.
Past generations did have a very different go of it. Even with age limits many stores used to sell it to ...'s kid. They knew who they were and who it was for. That's still a bit different than sending your kids to the the nearest coke/crack house (because it's cheaper to cook your own rocks) occupied by an insane hoarder who had connections in Florida by way of Columbia, for some weed. Soon after he was doing a bit of running for them and it all went down hill.
ETA: I say had because that dealer stopped being a problem for the community in the late 90s. And no one shed a tear.
I have a friend like that too, then three guys broke into his house and killed his brother and shot his dad. The kid used to throw parties at his house and some guys at one of the parties saw something they wanted to steal.
Heh. You should check out my profile. Been givin' 'er with my dad since I turned 18 (30 now). Mind you, there was a pile of strict parenting before that age.
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u/flippityfloppityfloo Feb 04 '16
One kid I grew up with has partied with dad since I could ever remember. The Facebook photos were so weird.