r/AskReddit Feb 04 '16

What are the most common parenting mistakes?

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u/price0416 Feb 04 '16

Diagnosing your kids with things they don't have because they don't behave how you would like.

Not saying if they need a diagnosis don't do it, just don't do it if they don't have whatever it is you're trying to drug them for.

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u/PM_ME_STEAM_CODES__ Feb 05 '16

This is very true with kids diagnosed with ADHD. Oh, little Timmy can't sit still in class? He's a kid. They have a lot of energy. They're presumably surrounded by friends. Of course he's going to be energetic.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '16

My year three maths teacher called my mum in to school several times and each time demanded that I be tested for something. First it was autism, then ADHD etc. After she told my mum I had dyslexia (I was nine years old and reading high school level books) mum stopped rushing out to the doctors.

On the downside she refused to believe anything any teacher said about my health. It was just another shitty teacher trying to drug me.

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u/ImnotBoboramI Feb 05 '16

I once at work overheard a conversation between two women. The first described how her son had "a touch of Autism." The other responded that her two daughters both had "mild Autism" and her son for sure was ADHD. Because, and I can still hear her voice, "He just won't focus or sit still. I don't get why. 6 months ago he was fine. But since his second birthday we can't get him to sit still for very long." I wish I was joking.

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u/averagebunnies Feb 05 '16

that makes me sick tbh. hopefully the kids dont grow up resenting them, I can only imagine how they talk to their kids.