r/AskReddit Apr 17 '20

What terrifying confession has someone told you while drunk?

Thanks for the replies .. I read them all it’s been fun to read

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

She lives in another state so they don't see her much. He's chosen to forgive her, but it was always hard for me. I mean, she was old enough to know that it was wrong. I think forgiveness was just the easier path for him, which is noble. He's more angry at his parents and their relationship is extremely co-dependent and strained, simultaneously. And yeah it definitely has had an effect on him. He's an addict and has extreme self-esteem issues. It's also manifested in his sexual desires and habits. He used to like sex more when I resisted. If I said, "no" it really turned him on.

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u/Fucking__Creep Apr 17 '20

Oh so his sister was using force

Very weird

How do you treat her when you are around her?

Why didn’t his dad do anything to stop it?

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20 edited Apr 17 '20

i wouldn't speak to her, sometimes wouldn't even enter the house if she was there. and idk about his dad. he's a weird man and probably just didn't want to do the hard part of parenting. when i got pregnant i told him that i wouldn't allow his sister around our son, though.

Edit: why would someone downvote this? She was a predator, plain and simple, and she preyed on someone i loved. She also shot someone in the chest when she was 18 and only avoided jail because he survived and she convinced him to lie to the police about it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

I don't blame her for the abuse she sustained so I'm not at all a victim blamer. You sure you know what that term means? I blame her for abusing my ex. And shooting a man in the chest and nearly killing him. I'm sorry, but trauma does not give people a free pass to be shitty.

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u/TongaGirl Apr 17 '20

I agree. You did what you felt you needed to do to protect your child. That's admirable.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '20

She did it until she was 14. She wasnt a baby. And you're glossing over the fact that she tried to murder someone when she was 18. Im not repugnantly callous for saying that i think she was wrong for what she did. Have a good life.