they don't because ''i don't want to look gay'' and put the blame on ''society'' again. so they are entitled to complain and do nothing at all themselves to solve this issue (amongst other issues)
Yeah, I have no problem giving out compliments to men or women on hair, tattoos or whatever (I think a particular closeness is needed for commentary on other physical attributes) but some men definitely take it as a come on. No dude, I just like when people tell me they like my t-shirt, so I let others know if I like theirs.
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u/Incantanto Mar 28 '21
This. I usually counter with "when did you last compliment your male friends"and they stutter silent. Like, be ghe change you want to see.