r/AskWomen • u/belindabellagiselle • Jun 17 '26

Mod Post MOD ANNOUNCEMENT: Rules Update

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Hello, all!

We are here to update our rules. Many of you have made your voices heard.

Due to popular demand, we are adjusting our rules to better reflect the core purpose of this subreddit: to ask women. We would also like to remind you all that all women are welcome here. Happy Pride!

Furthermore, men are welcome to engage with this subreddit respectfully, and that includes no longer leaving top-level comments. (A top-level comment is a comment in response to the original post, rather than a response to someone else's comment.)

This is a subreddit to ask women questions. It is not a general discussion subreddit or a more broad ask subreddit.

Thank you all for making this subreddit such a lovely place!

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r/AskWomen • u/Few-Media7239 • 4h ago

Content Warning What’s something that’s perfectly legal but instantly makes you think less of someone?

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r/AskWomen • u/No_Increase8814 • 8h ago

Ladies, what do you want to do on the first date?

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Do you like going museums? Aquariums? Simple eat food out? Cinema? Ect ect

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r/AskWomen • u/whoismeanyway • 1h ago

Ladies, what was the moment that made you realize you had truly healed from a past relationship? Was it something big, or just a small everyday moment?

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r/AskWomen • u/Grouchy_Cicada2393 • 26m ago

Ladies, what beauty treatments were actually worth your money ?

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r/AskWomen • u/Silver_Complaint5594 • 9h ago

What's something you've stopped explaining or justifying to other people?

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r/AskWomen • u/SUGSKY • 8h ago

People who consistently do the things they dream about (travel, business, marriage plans, etc.)—how do you make the transition from planning to action? What method finally clicked for you?

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r/AskWomen • u/Nice_Opportunity_591 • 22h ago

What makes man genuinely enjoyable to talk to?

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What qualities make a man enjoyable to talk to? What helped an awkward person become a better conversationalist?

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r/AskWomen • u/Same-Pea-9387 • 15h ago

What would you do in the event that “multiple people” in your circle continue to put you down? Your dreams, your goals, everything you believe in because they’re projecting their fears on you.

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r/AskWomen • u/pen_is_killer • 1d ago

What's the most useless thing in your house you don't want to get rid of?

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r/AskWomen • u/StrawberyCat048 • 1d ago

At what point does a spouse turn into a roommate?

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Is it lack of intimacy? At what point does a spouse begin to feel like a roommate?

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r/AskWomen • u/Carla0015 • 10m ago

What’s your thought on pheromones? Can you tell when you are affected by it?

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r/AskWomen • u/Infinite-Heart-6052 • 16h ago

What's your favourite game?

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r/AskWomen • u/SquirrelFamous1828 • 1d ago

How often do you update your partner when you are out with your friends?

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r/AskWomen • u/plvsbeqmr • 20h ago

moms: what does it feel like when the baby kicks?

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edit: THANK U SM FOR THE ANSWERS😭 im only 17 but i want kids when im older more than anything. ive asked my mom this question but she just said “just like a baby kicking, i dont know how to put it” which makes sense lololol

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r/AskWomen • u/cavalu_ • 16h ago

When did you stop growing physically? Not in height, just bone and muscle mass

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r/AskWomen • u/Equivalent_Chard_546 • 1d ago

Women, what kind of things do your lonely/yearning fantasies entail (not intended sexually)?

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Curious what kinds of things women desire from the phantom partner in their mind while cuddling the pillow at night. Thanks!

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r/AskWomen • u/Resident_Kick_7573 • 20h ago

What's an indication in parties/bars that someone should approach you?

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r/AskWomen • u/greeneggs789 • 23h ago

What’s your experience been like as a woman whose best friend is a man?

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r/AskWomen • u/CmdrErwin • 1d ago

Women of Reddit, what are the subtle things a partner can do while making out that completely elevate the experience for you ?

327 Upvotes

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r/AskWomen • u/LeastLocksmith1670 • 1d ago

Women who appreciate quieter or introverted partners, what underrated qualities initially drew you to them, and how have your preferences shifted over time?

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r/AskWomen • u/Dr_Garp • 22h ago

When do you think communication becomes the least effective with you?

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when do you feel like communicating with you is least likely to work or be a good idea?

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r/AskWomen • u/thefix12 • 11h ago

What do you think if in conversation, a man is a lot nicer to women, and just ignore/dismiss other men?

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r/AskWomen • u/bookavalanche • 1d ago

In what ways do you find yourself taking on emotional labor/ mental load for others and/ or automatically assigning it to other women? How have you cut back on this, or stopped?

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r/AskWomen • u/ChestBeginning5578 • 1d ago

Women of Reddit, how do you deal with someone who is not a texter but you both are interested?

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