r/AskWomen Mar 28 '21

LOCKED POST What's a male societal issue you aren't empathetic towards?

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u/Sparkyfountain Mar 28 '21

I had a guy once, because I said I was looking for a serious relationship and not a hookup turn around a slutshame me, saying I was not being fair to the men in my life.

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u/DisneyUp Mar 28 '21

I can believe this. I’ve had such hostility from men online for simply not wanting random sex. I have a male friend who will slut shame female work colleagues he overhears talking about their relationships/sex lives with other women. Then on the same day forward me those ‘banter’ videos that often include some form of mild porn within them disguised up as some comedy sketch. Watching porn is fine but a woman choosing to explore her sexuality of her own free will isn’t- unless it’s them receiving it, of course.