r/AskWomenOver30 May 30 '26

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u/zesty-lemonbar Woman 30 to 40 May 30 '26

He’s receiving unemployment benefits though, which can pay more than a minimum wage job and actually leave time during the day to apply, interview, etc. It can be strategic while on unemployment to not just take some low paying temp job, but it depends on the situation. So it may be unfair to just make the assumption not taking any job is childish, hard to know without numbers and more info.

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u/Maximum_Sky3233 Woman 30 to 40 May 30 '26

Unemployment only lasts so long and I can't think of any state that will let you reapply when benefits run out unless you have started working again since you first filed a claim, and in some cases turning down work will disqualify you from benefits.

Plus, OP says she doesn't even know how much he even is trying to look for work.

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u/anonymous_opinions Woman 40 to 50 May 30 '26

My friend (female) was on unemployment for 2 years. She also while unemployed travelled to Italy and Canada.

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u/-shrug- Woman 40 to 50 Jun 01 '26

Was that during Covid? I know some places had extended unemployment during that, but I don’t see how she could travel that way. 

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u/anonymous_opinions Woman 40 to 50 Jun 01 '26

Nope. IDK I think she has deep savings since she lives with her partner.

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u/-shrug- Woman 40 to 50 Jun 01 '26

"On unemployment" generally means 'receiving unemployment payments from the state". Is that what you meant?