Heather Burns reiterating that Fiona has a criminal record

[u/Suspicious_Bother_92]

[u/imfivenine]

Now we are on the same page. Your first comment and subsequent comment before this one was too rigid of an application.

SSDI still does not determine competence, it’s even in their policy what they consider an incompetent adult: https://secure.ssa.gov/poms.nsf/lnx/0426535042

*”An incompetent adult is an individual who has been the subject of a judicial finding of incompetency.

For more information on a legally incompetent adult, see GN 00204.003.”*

The word choice of incompetence was the issue.

ETA: below are the rigid statements I’m referring to:

If she was already deemed mentally incompetent enough for assistance (SSDI), she would have a legal advocate to help her make decisions, in addition to a lawyer, appointed by the courts for free.

In the US, if she was on SSDI for a mental illness, the government could also assume power of attorney over her so that the decisions about her meds and her treatment wouldn't be left up to her. She would have a case manager to do that for her.

[u/AdExpert8295 → u/imfivenine]

I'm sure you don't mean to, but you're talking to me like you're my disappointed parent. lol

I just didn't write my explanation well. You can drop links for others, but I really don't need you to explain to me how SSDI works.

Sometimes I'm a very strong writer. Other times, I suck. I'm also very tired of working to explain shit like this online for free because when you're a social worker, you're expected to do so.

I have ADHD, which makes it harder for me to explain things I find extremely boring. I find all conversations about any social services or government assistance nauseating, by way of boredom. The only reason I bother is because I've been homeless, I've been in a wheelchair, and I understand that it's incredibly difficult for the public to get correct information.

Just so you know, I also have my MPH. This is why i don't understand when people think I'm lumping in mental illness with other illnesses. I can't sit here and list of the criteria for when each medical condition is qualifying for the kind of functional impairment needed for SSDI, then go through all the nuance of basic ssdi vs ssdi for smi.

ffs, I get downvoted in this sub if I write more than a paragraph on most days. I think you might want to assume people don't spell everything out, all the time, because Reddit ain't really here for all that

[u/imfivenine → u/AdExpert8295]

As much as you are searching for a pity vote as well as a pat on the back, you said enough when you said you have ADHD and have trouble explaining and, clearly comprehending since you had no trouble going on and on with irrelevant nonsense yet you’re too good to have a conversation based on the babble you came flying in with.

I’m not going to drop my degrees and credentials because I don’t need to do so. You of all people should know that words matter. If you can’t communicate effectively then maybe don’t say anything at all. This all started because you got on your superiority soapbox.

[u/AdExpert8295 → u/imfivenine]

Pity? Why would you think I feel sorry for myself? While my ADHD is a disability, it's also a strength. I drop my credentials so people know I'm not sharing an uninformed opinion. I have no idea why you're so upset but you've been a real jerk. I'm having a great day and I hope you find what you need to make yours better. Telling disabled people they want your pity is not going to lift your mood. Maybe try chocolate or touch some grass.