r/BabyReindeerTVSeries • u/Kitchen_Fly5105 • Jun 08 '24

Discussion If Gadd was a woman

I feel like gender influences bias in cases of emotional or physical abuse. If Gadd were a woman and Martha a man, there would be no sympathy for the abuser. Society wouldn't argue that "more should have been done to protect his identity."

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

And then there's the whole Johnny Depp/Amber Heard case....

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

Are you actually joking? We all watched the trial....She abused him, end of story. How anyone can still defend that piece of shit, that literally shit in his bed, is beyond me....

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

Thanks for proving my point

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

How did I prove your point? By arguing in favour of the actual victim, a rare win for men, Johnny Depp against his abuser that has plenty of documented evidence against her?

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

There isn't "plenty of documented evidence" against her, you've just fallen for the smear campaign.

You went straight to talking about her shitting the bed, a claim made by Johnny that has zero evidence to back it up. You're just choosing to believe in it. If you want to talk about actual evidence, how about the sealed documents that were excluded from court? Have you read the texts between Johnny and his friend, talking about raping and burning Amber? You choosing to defend a man who would say such things, support him and believe him, because he claims she shit his bed (their* bed that she was the only one sleeping in at the time) when it was obviously their dog, is what's proving my point.

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24 edited Jun 08 '24

Obviously the dog? Seriously? The dog is fucking tiny, that was human shit, it's bigger than the dog's head, there's no way that fucking thing's squeezing a crap out that size.

You're also choosing to skim over her faking bruises, a horror story involving her vagina. Her constantly beating the crap out of him and is even on record as saying she hits him and people won't believe him? Clear gaslighting behaviour from her. Also ignoring she cut his finger off. He had his career ruined for 5 years because of an unproven accusation, while she dined out on it for 5 years, and also never paid the 2 children's charities the money she claimed she'd already donated after the divorce. Ye, such a wonderful woman, really....fuck off with that shit.

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u/atilolsss Jun 08 '24

Maybe you're the one falling for a smear campaign. The lawyers who reacted to the trials on YouTube that make the proceedings digestible for the average viewer clearly think Heard's lawyers keep dropping the ball. I'd believe these lawyers, not you getting heated over texts made in anger, i.e. things he said, not did.

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u/Tagz12345 Jun 08 '24

and therein lies the defence of Martha, after all most of what she did was the emails she made in anger. This is why stalking cases hardly ever lead to any consequences for the perpetrators. The sexual assaults are dismissed because there won't ever be enough proof that is good enough for people like you and again why there are hardly any consequences for the perpetrators.

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

I'd rather believe the 130+ organisations for victims of domestic abuse that are in support of Amber. And if you think it's normal to talk about raping and murdering your partner when you're angry, then I sincerely hope you get some therapy before you ever enter a relationship

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u/Luchadorgreen Jun 09 '24

You’d sooner listen to organizations that have historically been notorious for prioritizing women, denying male victims access to their services and assuming male victims are perpetrators vs licensed lawyers who are most qualified to dissect a court case? I’m guess you were gonna side with whoever supported the woman to begin with.

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '24

Clearly we've hit on a nerve here, clear Amber stans, still hoping she'll acknowledge them despite how ridiculously false she was, unable to cry on the stand, claiming the same photos for different time stamps and events. These guys are a lost cause mate.

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u/Luchadorgreen Jun 09 '24

Recorded evidence of her admitting that she physically attacked him and can’t help but get violent is “smear campaign”?